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4.2.3.6 What does he want with me?

ThatGirl

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A guy I went out with a few times told me last time we were together he only wants a sexual relationship with me... I told him I am looking for more. He reached the day after telling me he had a great time with me the day before which surprised me but no contact since. Past few days I've been consulting the Ching about his feelings. Today I asked what he wants with me and am rather perplexed by the reading. Also to note he is more than 10 years younger than me so finding this reading interesting but cannot make total sense of it particularly line 6 which seems to be saying he maybe wants me to punish or correct him?
 

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Perhaps Hexagram 4 is suggesting that you're asking the wrong question. I recommend asking "What do I want ?" (Meaning You) Or perhaps, "What should I DO about X?" It's best to focus on things YOU can control. We don't get to control other people. Thus the lesson in Modesty. I hope this helps.
 
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Hmm... I'm not trying to control anything... I just wanted to know what he wants with me currently.
 

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4.2 He was doing fine on his own enjoying being single.
4.3 Then you appeared and he found himself tempted to give up his playboy life style.
But he wasn't ready to so...
4.6 He's stopped calling you.

All in all I think he respects your desire to only have sex as part of a meaningful relationship and he has the decency to recognize that monogamy is not for him right now and so rather than leading you on he has stopped calling...for now anyway!
 

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I asked again today the same question ...what does he want with me...and got Hex 4.5. Again not sure how to interpret but wanted translation online said something to the effect of learning something from a younger person.
 
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4.5 A happy good time like teenagers without responsibility.
 

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4.5 A happy good time like teenagers without responsibility.
Agreed. So many of the changing lines seem apt to someone who's much younger than you and probably doesn't see relationships the same way at all. Although line 2 sometimes makes me think of a young man marrying an older woman and adopting her son.
 

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Simple.. he doesn't really dig you, if we swap i ching for tarot, don't be a 4, fool, if he doesn't really want to be with you then don't conflict(6) what you want, find someone who does..
 

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