40.2.5 and whether or not I will be able to move out of state with my daughter

[chucklesthegirl]

Hi all,

I am planning on moving to another state sometime next year. The only real obstacle I am worried about is my daughter's father (my ex husband) attempting to stop me from leaving the state with her. I have not yet told him of my intentions to relocate since i do not want him harassing me via phone or just becoming belligerent.

Our marriage was a violent one and even after I had left him he still tried to control my life. She loves her father but I think she and I need a fresh start and to seek out better opportunities. Things are not so great where we live now and I do not want her to grow up in this environment.

So last night, to seek comfort, I asked the yi "is he going to stop me from taking my daughter to 'X'?" and received 40.2.5>45 as my answer.

This seems like a really great response not only because it indicates removing barriers and gaining freedom, but it is also seems to describe the need for breaking free from this situation my daughter and i are in.

Am I reading this correctly? The relating hexagram 45 is not too clear to me as how it fits in with the primary hexagram and lines.
All feedback is appreciated.

Namaste

 

[icastes]

40 and both of the moving lines are auspicious. It means you are liberated if you go, and you ought to act immediately. 45 gathers people together, usually in a good way and, hence, it too is auspicious. In other words, I don't think that he can stop you, if you want to go. The hexagrams seem to favor you strongly. Generally speaking, I should say that fathers of this kind are not really interested in the child, and more in using the child against the mother. So, it's better that you leave him as soon as possible.

 

[willowfox]

He may indeed raise objections but take no notice of him and absolutely refuse to even debate the issue with him, so if or when he finds out, tell him that your mind is firmly made up, goodbye. The advise says not to get into any discussion on the subject, just ignore him.

But remain aware of what he may try to do if he finds out and prepare accordingly, therefore either have a baseball bat and/or a bus ticket ready.

 

[chucklesthegirl]

Thank you to the both of you for your responses. I certainly hope the yi is correct about this. Somehow though, the reading directly reflected what I have been feeling in my gut for a while....that he is not interested in anything other than trying to control me or get back at me even if he uses our daughter to do it.

I will update this thread as soon as things get moving along towards us moving.

Namaste!

 

[grace heart]

I know it’s been a while but I would really love to know what happened…