41.3.6 to 11 Confused, please help finding a new home

[Bezoya]

Hello everyone, this is my first post. I’m confused as to how to understand my reading. My question is: “Please give me directions to find our new home”. We have been financially in difficulty for some time now, hence living in a caravan. My husband will hopefully be given an employment contract within a few weeks and we hope to be then able to eventually move to a house again. I am so relieved to see 11 coming up for us, but I am still in the same position of wondering what we need to do to get there because I can’t figure out how to interpret 41.3, as we are a happy couple, not a threesome or alone. I hope some more experienced members might have an idea – perhaps it refers to something symbolic?? Many thanks.

 

[diamanda]

Hi Bezoya and welcome,

Please give me directions to find our new home
41.3.6 > 11
Maybe 41.3 here means that your husband will find a job. 41.6 speaks of finding a home, but not as family, i.e. maybe not as owners, but as renters? Just to cover that other base, if you decide to rent somewhere, make sure it's not at the same house with a single person, as that would jeopardise your marriage.

 

[Bezoya]

Hello diamanda, thank you for your welcome and your reply. I was so desperate when I posted that I had to stop looking for replies after a couple of days as it made me even more nervous. I don’t know if I should have been alerted to your post by email, at any rate I didn’t get one. So although it’s a few months ago now, I thought I’d still give an update in case some day another poor person gets this confusing reading. As you suggested, my husband did indeed get a job, working for a community (line 6), but it is only part-time and still not secure so we didn’t try to move yet. A new home for us means to rent, and definitely only for the two of us, but thanks for the warning! We have tried to accept the aspect of “decrease” as living in very reduced circumstances and have tried to use the time for inner development. But I still can’t imagine what changing line 3 could refer to as far as a threesome is concerned. Makes me a teeny bit worried I might not know something … So still a bit confused on that one. Moving on ... and thinking optimistically, I’m hoping my husband’s job will be stabilised in the next few months and then we could have another go at moving.

 

[diamanda]

Hi Bezoya,

Thanks for the update. Glad to hear your husband found a job, even an insecure part-time one. I have no idea how notifications work on this site, as I personally don't use them.

The reason I got the idea that 41.3 might refer to a job here is because 41.3 gives two options: either three is too many and one goes... or, a person who has nobody finds company. Because of the next line (finding a place as a 'servant') I thought that 41.3 referred to the second option (i.e. your husband who had no job/company would find one). With 41.3 I like to look at other lines, especially any next lines changing, and also the resulting outcome, so as to get a better idea of which option is it - 3 becomes 2, or 1 becomes 2? However, as we can never be certain with such an omen... I added in the "avoid renting with single people" caution to be on the safe side. I really don't think there's a third person involved here.

 

[Bezoya]

Hello Diamanda, I am quite in awe of your powers of deduction and canny translation of the lines! I can't imagine ever being able to understand them in that way, though I am trying!
We are still living in a caravan but we hope to be able to move in the next month or two, so I asked how our chances are now to find a lovely home and I got 14.1.3.4 I am quite satisfied as it at least gives me the feeling that my hopes will eventually be heard.
I read in another post regarding a relationship that these same lines mean you need to do inner cleansing. I think for me that could mean letting go of feeling trapped in life, as living in such oppressive circumstances has had a bad effect on my ability to feel optimistic. I know that's counter-productive, but as some point I just felt the physically limited space got me so down I couldn't get up again.
If you have any thoughts on those line I'd be really pleased to hear them!
I've still not figured out if there's some kind of notification system so I'll just keep coming back here.

 

[diamanda]

Thanks for the kind words Bezoya!

we hope to be able to move in the next month or two, so I asked how our chances are now to find a lovely home
14.1.3.4 > 4

Moving away from possessions (14) into the unknown or into a trap/cage (4).

14.1 says that there are no relations, which is difficult, perhaps it shows your current situation where you don't feel rooted where you are. 14.3 shows the difference between rich and poor. From what you've said so far, you're not that rich, so maybe this is asking you to think about your resources. 14.4 advises restraint. All of this leading to 4, which doesn't sound like a lovely home... So at the time of your question, and for the next couple of months or so, it is not favourable to look for a new place.

I think for me that could mean letting go of feeling trapped in life, as living in such oppressive circumstances has had a bad effect on my ability to feel optimistic.

In my experience, it makes no difference if we feel optimistic or pessimistic. All that matters is that we take the right practical steps, use common sense, and if we believe in divination to seriously heed in what way the luck factor is blowing. Our inner attitude only serves to make us feel better and has absolutely no tangible result in reality. So according to me don't worry about how you feel! Or if you want to try and feel better, by all means do so, but don't expect this to produce any results in reality.