41.4 &41.5 "someone is benefitting"

[kestrelw1ngs]

Hello dear forum people,

These lines have come up four times in the past few weeks for a variety of situations. One situation resolved effortlessly (a lost item). Another was regarding how I could honor a recently passed relative.

41.5. came up today when I asked "what to do for a living situation?"

Something I'm wondering is in other experience with this line, if the "someone" in the line who is benefitting is the oracle itself, or a sort of divine guidance...or is it more practical, or is it the Self. The question arises because all of these questions have been about losing something/someone and the anxiety of not knowing how to relate after a loss, if it can be resolved.

All thoughts are welcome. Im not really sure how to interpret 41.5 except "its gonna be okay, trust" especially given the relating hex is 61

Cheers!

 

[Matali]

Hello,
41.5 – 61: When you diminish and moderate passions, you make space for new things, relationships, creativity... It is you and others who will benefit from tortoiseshells. You say you've lost someone but the yao 61.5 fan shows that you have to be careful who you trust.
Make space for new things

 

[professionalsky3]

41.4 When you let go of grief, fear or any negative emotions then what's meant to be in your life will come up. I got this hex a few hours ago and that's what I make of it.

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

Hm thank you both for the interpretations. Letting go of emotions doesn't make sense to me, its common advice but my mind doesn't grasp it (I am autistic and my emotions last a very long time/are delayed so I often feel I am processing things that happened years ago for the first time). To let go implies holding on, in perhaps a physical way, as well as mental?

Perhaps an issue to bring to my therapist.

 

[kestrelw1ngs]

You say you've lost someone but the yao 61.5 fan shows that you have to be careful who you trust.
Make space for new things

Thank you Matali. On one hand that makes sense for "loss" of an ex, but the other casting was for the loss of a great grandmother.

Perhaps I believe it is wrong to "let go" of grief as in my mind this is a way to honor the person. As in, if you do not grieve deeply you did not love them deeply. But it could just as well be honoring them to enjoy life.

These seem like such basic emotional lessons but well, you learn when you learn i suppose.