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42.2 to 61 - love break, grieving and hope

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(please excuse my english, I'm from Spain)

Hi all, hope you are all well.

I'd like to share a reading and I'd be grateful to have some help, opinion, insight...

A 4 years great love relationship, made us grow and enjoy. Like a "first love" but with the added benefits of age and experience. It went to "pause" mode a couple of times to do some readjustments and we restarted even better both times: a couple of steps higher and better.
From march 2019 a temporary job eated away most of our spare time to enjoy together and at the same time she needed to make a strong grow effort by herself (inner work, to become stronger and more selfconfident, etc)
Because of me being participating less and the strong need of her to do this growing and do it alone, it ended up, not in a new pause, but in a break, two months ago.
After two months being apart and scarce communication in order to respect the break, we met to talk about it. I had hope in that it will be a new pause that will bring us higher again, new things to learn once again, growing and keep going again. But she felt it was not a pause but a real break.

Then I asked her to please "keep the door slightly open", because we both think it is a very special relationship full of good things and experiences, mutual growing, joy, attraction, etc. and because I had seen very clearly what I can do better from my side and think it is possible to make it work very well; also because the work she's been doing with herself would change things from her side.
I've been thinking and meditating deeply until real causes (on my side) came to me like simple, naked truth, so I was confident enough when asking for another chance.

After the meeting, which left us both with a good feeling and showed that there was still love and attraction, I insisted "please do not completely close the door and consider it"
and I got a short and bogus answer from her "the summer aaaand...".
That's all I got, but well, it wasn't a "I said no, sorry but no"

After some days, I saw it was going to be a VERY difficult situation for me to deal with... I have to work on me as if it was the end, but at the same time have hope, stand-by, without a solid and clear agreement (OK, I choose to have hope! because I'd like to share my life with her)
So I asked "Advise from Master Yi about how to manage the situation in order to reach an enduring union with Xxx"
Yi answered 42.2 to 61
 
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42.2 - 61
Know Thyself.

Continue to work on your self, become the best you you can be. As you become strong and clear and confident your path will become illuminated.
 
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Thank you very much Rosada.
I'm working on myself and doing all the best I can while dealing with the pain of having lost a great person and relationship.
But still, I have a deep inner certainty that this relationship is something very valuable that worths any effort I can do to keep it alive and growing.

Do you see in Yi's answer any clue about the relationship or any future outcome related to it?

Any other interpretation/insight very wellcome : )

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Anyone else would like to share an interpretation or insight about this 42.2 61 ?

I'd be very grateful
 

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Hello Fern!

42.2>61 Increase (42) your gifts so that you gain the Inner Truth (61).

42.2: "Liu: Someone enriches him with twenty tortoises. He cannot refuse. Perpetual continuance brings good fortune. The king makes a presentation to God. Good fortune."
I don't exactly say where the gifts come from- it can be yourself or others. Anyway, be open to what enriches you and continue improving the situation with that.Good luck!
 
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Hi all. Just a sort-of update

I keep working on myself and I can tell that indeed men (mostly friends), wisemen (I Ching, Tarot...) and Gods are helping me.
Comforting me, giving advise and helping me to keep on my way. I'm having a lot of help.

Too soon for results but I keep fighting and walking my way.

Please keep sharing thoughts and interpretations of this 42.2 - 61

Thanks, see you soon : )
 

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People say that with this line you are blessed. You are given a lot.
So independently of the outcome of your relationship with this person, you must remain assured that you are blessed and on the right track.
 

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42.2 - 61
Know Thyself.

Continue to work on your self, become the best you you can be. As you become strong and clear and confident your path will become illuminated.
As usual @Rosada wisdom Rules
 

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Hi all. Just a sort-of update

I keep working on myself and I can tell that indeed men (mostly friends), wisemen (I Ching, Tarot...) and Gods are helping me.
Comforting me, giving advise and helping me to keep on my way. I'm having a lot of help.

Too soon for results but I keep fighting and walking my way.

Please keep sharing thoughts and interpretations of this 42.2 - 61

Thanks, see you soon : )
Can you tell us the outcome? Thank you!
 

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