42.5.6 > 24 about a boy

[deusa]

What is the potential of D for me?
42.5.6 > 24

My love life is non existant. I made a kind of decision not to have anyone. Too much trouble, too much illusion.
Then i met this guy. He is intellgent, he is kind. But it is all too initial and i feel a mix of fear and hope.
So I asked the Yi.

Now, what is the meaning of this???
It sounds hopeful, but the lines sound fearsome...
Any help?
Thanks.
(Maybe i should just run away and hide somewhere until this feeling is gone?)

 

[ginnie]

Deusa, I think your reading points to an attitude problem with respect to your inquiry. I usually get line 42.6 when there is something that I could have given of myself, but I'm holding onto negative or selfish feelings. The indication is that you might look at this in terms of what you might give to the situation or to the potential relationship.

 

[Tim K]

I think you've got a very clear, encouraging answer.

42.5. If you come from the heart and do not question, greatest good fortune.
Genuine involvement is the virtue recognized.

Questioning comes from the mind, flow from the feeling. The essence of the flow is to be genuinely in it, we cannot question a flow without stopping it.
If you feel emotions and attraction - go with them, stop questioning. Fear lowers your energy state.

Line 6 is a warning, what will happen if you continue to run away:
42.6. He increases no one. Someone strikes him. He is inconsistent. Misfortune.

Here we fail to sacrifice the importance of identifying - we identify in the inner stillness - and we miss the middle path, the non-identified state. By trying first the outer and then the inner as our focus we are not being consistent and nothing is furthered; only a shock will change this cycle of choosing, for it fuels itself, so it is as if someone strikes him.

This is no time to get involved in inner stillness (line 1 is yang) when we are in a tao of nourishing outer activity.

You said it yourself, that you decided to banish all relationships from your life. Yi advises against it, return(24) to the middle path.

 

[deusa]

I feel so fearful!!!
Thanks both of you.
I asked what should i do to be happy and fulfilled and i got 41. I was a bit perplexed, but then thinking i think it means i have to decrease my expectations on myself. I give what I have and that is also an offering good enough. And I recieve what is given and the same holds for him.

 

[deusa]

He increases no one and he is inconsistent...
Not me...
So i stopped most contact.
But it is ok.

 

[rosada]

I think your line, "But it is ok" is revealing of the 24. Return experience.

That is, after trying out the possibilities for a bit and finding this was 43.6 bringing increase to no one, you simply 24. Return to your original space and it doesn't have to involve drama or hard feelings.

Thanks for giving me some insight into 24!