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meganj

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Lately ive been having trouble with my bf. I think maybe hes been talking or flirting with other women. idk im not entirely %100 sure but thought id ask. "was - talking to another girl" 43.1.3>47... hmmmmm

maybe he wants to but he hasnt?? or...
He was misunderstood by me.
 
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hopex

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to me it seems he decided against it - thought better of it
and is staying in his circled garden (47 an untouchable place
within)

so nah..... he's cool
 

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Ha! i wish it was cool... But its not. He was texting a buddy earlier about "hanging out with a bunch of ladies from work", and also to sumone else meeting up to go "check out girls" as far as this goes in my mind this does not look like loyal behavior and im a ball of mixed emotions. I think im done..
Anyways thanks hopex!
 

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well its best to explain you need commitment and exclusivity and
wish him well - give him space and go out with the girls and look
after yourself (better than fretting - that will make him sit up!!
 

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trutru hopex...
I think the mound of impossibilities have gathered way too high now tho.
 

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"was - talking to another girl" 43.1.3>47...

When we ask Yi about someone else, it often tells us about ourselves instead. I think it's telling you to wait before making any accusations and also stand tall by yourself and communicate clearly, as hopex said above.

Don't let his possibly wandering attentions cause the collapse of all your happiness, present, past, and future.

You must wait before accusing him of anything and, you know, you don't have any proof of anything. Talk is cheap and everybody loves to chatter away. It usually doesn't mean anything.

Out of feeling insecure you are trying to use the I Ching as if it were a fly on the wall, there to inform you what's going on inside your bf. Better to wait for a better time, and then have some sort of straightforward discussion directly with him about all this, if that becomes possible.
 

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