43.1.6 > 44

[precision grace]

I asked what I should know about a very delicate situation. There is a lot of danger here, so I am too scared to interpret by myself.

Would you see this as advising to meet and discuss or to stay the heck away from meeting and discussing?

Thanks so much

 

[goddessliss]

I asked what I should know about a very delicate situation. There is a lot of danger here, so I am too scared to interpret by myself.

Would you see this as advising to meet and discuss or to stay the heck away from meeting and discussing?

Thanks so much

I don't think it saying either of this things chick.

My interpretation is to put things into place before you meet with this person - in other words be prepared and also get someone to help you out, maybe even take them with you.
If you don't then meeting with them would just be a waste of time.

- Liss

 

[dragona]

43 into 44 does show a lot of frustration to me.
Perhaps you feel that your opinion and presence is unwanted here but you are eager to contribute with something of your own - your own truth, as Hilary says for 43.6 should be spoken in order to put an end to the frustration you feel. How to go about it is another thing - certainly not in haste but you are not about to go that way, right?
Perhaps ask how to handle that situation the best.This looks to me as you have gotten the description of how the situation is reflecting on you and a bit of advice for starters.
All the best, d.

 

[precision grace]

Thank you both. Well, some sort of meeting did take place and things sort of dissolved a bit from the frosty situation they were in. Whether that will hold, is another matter. I like Lise's take on these lines... 43.1 - every step is important, one wrong move can mess up relation/whole life - so very very dangerous step by step. 43.6 - being open and honest. I sort of really want to have an open heart to heart and clear the air, but I'm still worried it would cause further damage rather than make things better.
So I asked "What if I bring it out in the open?" and got 35 unchanging. I'm going to take that as advice to have a frank chat. DO let me know if you think I shouldn't!

 

[dragona]

but it looks like it already is out

 

[precision grace]

but it looks like it already is out

haha! but it isn't! Things are back to being awkward in a non frosty way This whole thing feels like the Emperor's New Clothes and I'm that kid with a clamp over his mouth; unable to speak out the truth. It seems that some people can't handle the truth...

 

[goddessliss]

haha! but it isn't! Things are back to being awkward in a non frosty way This whole thing feels like the Emperor's New Clothes and I'm that kid with a clamp over his mouth; unable to speak out the truth. It seems that some people can't handle the truth...

Oh yeah you got that right big time sista!!!

Well from this interpretation it looks like at least you would get to have a lot of sex if you told the truth

http://www.eclecticenergies.com/iching/consultation.php?lns=888787

In my mind this is not always a bad thing - keeps you healthy and sane and saves you meditating really. just sayin'....
- Liss

 

[precision grace]

Oh yeah you got that right big time sista!!!

Well from this interpretation it looks like at least you would get to have a lot of sex if you told the truth

http://www.eclecticenergies.com/iching/consultation.php?lns=888787

In my mind this is not always a bad thing - keeps you healthy and sane and saves you meditating really. just sayin'....
- Liss

That's hilarious. Trouble is, I can't have lot of sex until I've lost a lot of weight and I can't lose the weight without having lot of sex. It's one of them paradox thingies