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aine

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Hi all,

It has been a while since I posted here and you were so helpful before. I have a brief question. I've been dating a fellow who I like very much for the past 3 months but is has been difficult for me to read the dynamic of this relationship. So I threw the Iching to ask for some guidance. I have an idea what this reading means, but since it is very important to me, I am hoping to get another point of view on it. Thanks!

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43 and the first moving line (and the second is okay, but very little in terms of this dreary gua) promise very little in the way of love. One party is trying too hard; take a step back and reevaluate what is going on. 19 is generally a very auspicious gua, but here it means that if you recognize what is wrong with this present affair that you will enjoy good fortune and find someone who is much more compatible with you and desirous of more steady and long-term love.
 
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aine

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Thanks icastles. I was thinking that the 19 would mean that if I withdrew and stopped trying, that things would get better in the context of this relationship. I know that iChing doesn't read the future, just the present. So 19 confuses me a little, I thought it could mean something good is possible with this man, or is it really more likely that there is someone who is right in the periphery somewhere? I've certainly learned a lot about me and relationships with this current man, but something needs to change between us. I do love him but am not willing to sacrifice myself for him (I've already done that and reached my limit).

I'm going to take your advice and let this relationship go and hope for something better.
 
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