43 to 13 received on advice needed

[gigi]

Quick story. Husband and I are separated 3 years. I wish to eventually reconcile and do not wish to anger him. Turns out he has a 20 year old daughter he has not acknowledged. I was called by her uncle when her mom died. She is wealthy and does not need anything from her father, just wants to be acknowledged and speak to him on the phone. He has not returned their calls. My heart breaks for this girl who would like to know more about that side of her family. They have asked for his mom's number, but I have not felt it is in my place to give this number out. It keeps troubling me, and I asked the IChing if I should help them contact her. Received 43 moving to 13. Thanks for the help.

 

[elias]

Hex 43.3

Of Hex 43 generally Carol Anthony notes: "Be resolute to keep withing the correct limits."

Of line 2: Events or images approach which might press us into action. We should not allow our self-confidence to cause us to step outside our limits....

Of Hex 13 -- The general title of Fellowship suggests good feelings all around. The lines, however, reveal the problems that result from factionalism -- "easy relationships" without depth, clannishness, "hiding weapons," abandonment, slow understanding after much struggle, relationships of convenience rather than true mutual commitment....

'nuff said?

 

[icastes]

43 is a very bad gua for almost everything, but in particular for anything that could erupt into a quarrel. It's best not to get involved. If you do, then you will maintain the harmony of 13. The girl can find her father through the Internet. Tell her to use something zabasearch.com or other website that locates people. I don't think you will do well with your ex- if you give the daughter the information she seeks and can easily get elsewhere.