43 Twice

[shefa]

Back to my growing relationship ... There is an issue that is a possible barrier to us fully being together. It was briefly discussed some time ago, no mention since. It's now bothering me.

I asked Yi, "What about me asking him about this?" The answer was 43.5 to 34

I believe I understand the essence of 43 well, yet I got confused about how to interpret based upon my question. Was I being told that to ask him the question would result in a break-through? Or was I being told to breath-through my desire to ask the question in the first place?

So I asked another question, "What result on our relationship can I expect if I ask him?" The answer was 43.1.4 to 48

Now I'm confused. What do you see?

 

[shefa]

Well, for contrast now I just asked, "What result can I expect on our relationship if I don't ask him, and just continue things status quo? Answer was 37 unchanging.

 

[shefa]

Also asked, "What's the best approach for me to take with him this week?" The answer 22.3.6 to 24. And lastly, I asked, "What is going on with him and the issue I wanted to ask about?" The answer here was 46.3 to 7. This looks to me that the issue is dead and empty. (According to the line.) I guess I should not worry about this "issue" after all.

 

[hollis]

Back to my growing relationship ... There is an issue that is a possible barrier to us fully being together. It was briefly discussed some time ago, no mention since. It's now bothering me.

I asked Yi, "What about me asking him about this?" The answer was 43.5 to 34

you asked the yj about asking about this, not about the issue itself, so i am confused (no big deal though) if 43 line 5 refers to the problem, or you speaking your feelings to him....43 line 5 in my own experience was always some problem that needed steady tending, a weed that popped up over and over again that needed to be picked out; it has been a thought, an obsession, a belief , that persisted no matter what

does this fit to what you are talking about?

 

[willowfox]

I asked Yi, "What about me asking him about this?" The answer was 43.5 to 34

Take only the first question as it answers your query,

Yes, go ahead and discuss the matter with him.

 

[willowfox]

So I asked another question, "What result on our relationship can I expect if I ask him?" The answer was 43.1.4 to 48

Hex 43.1,4 are about your asking him and are not relevant but Hex 48 is the result which is better cooperation, support and a deeper understanding of one another. You go to the next level.

 

[shefa]

Just to update you all and to offer my gratitude for your help: In the end I did not ask him the question. Although I believe it would have been fine for me to ask, there was a growing sense in me that the issue had already become less of a barrier. Then days later he offered me the answer to the question himself - and I didn't have to ask. All was well.