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About a relationship that has been causing me distress in the conflicting ways I feel about it. I have felt that I value the relationship more than the other person, and have come to resent the friendship//person at times. However when we are together I feel good and remember why I enjoy their presence. Recently though the back and forth, the wondering if I matter to them the same way they matter to me is causing too much distress and though I realize a lot of it can be attributed to my own perspective on things, I decided to consult Yi.

My question, what awaits me if I walk away from this relationship?

I received 44 Gou, Coupling changing to 15 Qian, balance.

Straight off the advice seems to be not to try to control the situation or to integrate this person into your life long term as it will not work.
Coupling, the woman is powerful. Do not take this woman.

I took to reading a few different interpretations and they all seem to give the same gist. This situation is not beneficial, it is dangerous and must be left. However when I went to yijing.nl the interpretation was much more open and neutral with the lines and the ideas stating that yes, the situation might be one of temptation and danger, but that creativity can only spring out of openness and willingness to get lost. It also advised that too much safety and too many boundaries does not allow one to be approached in life. Basically it seemed to say that one might want to consider before deciding that something is too dangerous to engage.

The changing lines are 4 so I haven't been able to make much of them. But my basic understanding was this is not longterm. Best to skip.


15 Qian balance.
Balance, expansion. A noble one brings to completion.


My understanding of the reading is that I am trying to integrate and control a situation/person of which I have no control, of which should not be controlled. If I step back and return to myself I will find balance.

Any help though? Appreciate any insight, advice, related experiences people have had!



[For context a little while back I had asked if this relationship was worth it and received 39.2.3.5.6 ->4 Obstruction to Youthful folly

I felt that one told me to change perspective because there was much I did not know about the situation because of my youthful folly. and to stop asking about it. ( I asked a little later lol hence this reading I am asking about. youthful folly. I am still new and finding footing with how to engage with Yi and how often is too often to ask guidance/insight.)]
 

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I have heard of methods of reading the top unchanging lines if you receive more than 3 changing lines which would be line 3 in this case

Nine in the third place means: There is no skin on his thighs,
And walking comes hard.
If one is mindful of the danger,

No great mistake is made.

There is a temptation to fall in with the evil element offering itself-a very dangerous situation. Fortunately circumstances prevent this; one would like to do it, but cannot. This leads to painful indecision in behavior. But if we gain clear insight into the danger of the situation, we shall at least avoid more serious mistakes.

I have a hard time of thinking of people as evil, but I guess it is referring to the situation not being fruitful.
 

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