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It's been a couple months since we broke up and we are not on speaking terms. We both made some mistakes. He decided to end it and was quite cold at the end. I still miss him. I asked I Ching if he is considering getting back with me and I got 44.3>6. One of the lines of the Oracle of resulting 6th hexagram said: ''There is truth and confidence, blocked.''. I asked for more clarity about this supposed blockage and got: 51.3.6>30. Thank you for any help provided!
One of the lines of the Oracle of resulting 6th hexagram said: ''There is truth and confidence, blocked.''. I asked for more clarity about this supposed blockage and got: 51.3.6>30. Thank you for any help provided!
It's been a couple months since we broke up and we are not on speaking terms. We both made some mistakes. He decided to end it and was quite cold at the end. I still miss him. I asked I Ching if he is considering getting back with me and I got 44.3>6.
I asked for more clarity about this supposed blockage and got: 51.3.6>30. Thank you for any help provided!
One of the lines of the Oracle of resulting 6th hexagram said: ''There is truth and confidence, blocked.''. I asked for more clarity about this supposed blockage and got: 51.3.6>30. Thank you for any help provided!
Can anyone help with this, please? I asked some weeks ago another question and I received no replies, hoping to get some insight on this one.
'Buttocks without flesh,
Moving awkwardly now.
Danger.
No great mistake.'
(from Hilary's translation in wikiwing)
Line 3 shows a very difficult quest that can disrupt ordinary life. Something you feel compelled to deal with as your problem which can mean neglect of other areas of life. The line says this is really hard and it causes suffering, the buttocks are wasting away it's such hard work yet it is not a mistake ?
I believe it is far more effective to put yourself right in the middle of the question for example "what if I expect him to come back" or some other question that involves you.
My sense is this is something really hard to tackle that you both need to go through. Maybe the relationship itself was really hard and exhausting ? Maybe he is exhausted, maybe he has a lot on his plate elsewhere ?
Ah maybe you meant you were reading a sentence in hexagram 6 about being blocked. Well 6 is 'Conflict' which can be both internal and external disputes, conflicts in feelings or intents. Maybe you have both been very conflicted about this relationship because it is actually such hard work for you both ?
Ah maybe you meant you were reading a sentence in hexagram 6 about being blocked. Well 6 is 'Conflict' which can be both internal and external disputes, conflicts in feelings or intents. Maybe you have both been very conflicted about this relationship because it is actually such hard work for you both ?
I believe it is far more effective to put yourself right in the middle of the question for example "what if I expect him to come back" or some other question that involves you.
I took your advice. I asked
''What ifs I expect him to come back?'' and I got 41.1.6> 7
We still have each other on Facebook, but he's been completely quiet. I asked also ''What if I block him there?'' and the answer was 63.2>5
What I really want is to try to reconcile, for us to give it another try, but since it's been a couple months since he hasn't reached out, I am starting to really lose hope and it hurts me to see him there. It would also hurt to block him and kill all hope and try to move on, so I am conflicted. I don't want to shoot myself in the leg by blocking, since what I really wish for is reconciliation.
Definitely no need to block him on Facebook. 63.2 shows you would feel that need because you feel vulnerable and exposed like lady who loses the curtain to her carriage but the line says there's no need to worry about this, just let things be and that feeling will pass of itself.
Even simply from a common sense POV there is no sense in blocking someone you want to reconcile with is there ?
If you expect him to comeback or live with the hope he will ? 41.1.6>7. I get the sense that by reducing the really intense emotions around it all (41) there might be a chance to converse again even if only to make the ending better. It is really important how things end because it very much effects how you 'recover'. If nothing much was said and he just became cold with you that is quite damaging for you. 41.1 can feel very brusque.
I wonder if it might help just to have a normal conversation with him about something that's not to do with how you both feel or anything like that ? With 7 there is always an agenda of some kind so I guess that would be your drive to reconcile but I think you move forward by opening out the relationship - even if it means having a conversation amongst other people, to reduce the pressure. In general 41 is to do with lessening emphasis around things and making simple genuine offerings.
I'm afraid I cannot really say if it is good for you to hold expectations but I do think, especially given the 63.2, you should leave the lines of communication open.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).