...life can be translucent

Menu

44.5.6 > 32 (Courting Sue Part 1)

Joined
Apr 21, 2010
Messages
5
Reaction score
3
Hi all, first time user on this site, but I've been consulting the I Ching sporadically over the past few years.

Mainly, here's the question I asked:

"If I became more proactive in my approach to courting Sue, what would happen between us?" - (This is exactly how I wrote down my question.)

ANSWER: 44.5.6 > 32

I have my own opinion on what this means, but I cannot be too objective in my interpretation which is why I would appreciate it if others could see this from a different angle. Besides, it's always fun to share. ;)

Oh, and I also asked this one: "I want to explore a potential relationship with Sue, but I fear that I would scare her away."

ANSWER: 36.6 > 22

Peace, love and rock 'n roll

My name is not Barry :rolleyes:
 

willowfox

Inactive
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
5,530
Reaction score
261
"If I became more proactive in my approach to courting Sue, what would happen between us?"
ANSWER: 44.5.6 > 32


Oh, and I also asked this one: "I want to explore a potential relationship with Sue, but I fear that I would scare her away."

ANSWER: 36.6 > 22

No need to be assertive with Ms. Sue as time and patience will bring its own reward as being too forward will not be a good idea, you need to "grow" on her so to speak. So, "proactive" behaviour is not recommended at this time as she would simply carry on as she is.

Yes, certainly explore the possibility but just becareful and mindful of how you do it.
 
Joined
Apr 21, 2010
Messages
5
Reaction score
3
UPDATE!!!

Well, several months have passed and the I Ching was absolutely right!

I followed the advice by remaining subtle about my feelings for Ms. Sue and by going along but without revealing all my cards (hey, all is fair in love and war!). As the weeks and months went by I could feel her whole vibe change around me. I knew her feelings for me were slowly evolving and it got to a culminating point sometime in June.

We got close... very close... intimate even. I could feel that it was mutual, albeit on different levels within the same scale.

A lot has happened between us since, lot's of ups and downs, but the Yi was absolutely right.

Thanks again Willowfox.

BARRY
 

Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom

Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).

Top