44 to 16 regarding online friend

[esolo]

I recently had a falling out with a long time online friend because I believe (based on many things) that it is a man who has been pretending to be a woman. (I'm a woman)

When I confronted him/her I got a very angry response. There were also no offers to prove to me that this is a woman even though this person can clearly see that I find this perceived deception very disturbing. His/her response was simply, "Let's go our own ways." I haven't heard from him/her since.

Because this is someone I've spoken to for years I asked,

"How does B. feel about the fact that we're no longer speaking to one another?"

I got 44.2.3.5.6 to 16

My understand of 44 leads me to believe that he/she is quite affected by this and has not gone "his/her own way." In fact, I'd say that he/she is a bit obsessed by this falling out and that it is actually drawing him/her to me in a strange way.

Any other ideas would be appreciated.

 

[willowfox]

Take the advice of Hex 44 and lines and leave this person alone, it indicates that they don't care about you as he/she has more exciting things to occupy themselves with. Your answer speaks of a not very nice person but due to the internet they have mislead you for a long time, they have deceived you.

 

[esolo]

Thank you for your response Willowfox.

I feel pretty betrayed. At one point I asked myself if I was over-reacting. I then realized that if I were in the same position I would offer to prove that I wasn't a man and correct any misunderstanding. He/she even told me that I needed "professional help" if I believed such a thing.

I believe that his/her reaction proves my suspicion.

 

[spica]

esolo, I believe 44.2.3.5.6 leads to 58 instead of 16, as I just had the same hexagram.

 

[esolo]

Oh, OK. I wrote down the lines wrong in that case because I did indeed get 16 as the relation hex.

 

[willowfox]

The story behind hex 44 says all is not as it seems, you have been a victim of deception.

Your answer is correct, Hex 44,2,3,5,6 goes to 16.

 

[spica]

Sorry, I realised it was my mistake oops

 

[esolo]

The story behind hex 44 says all is not as it seems, you have been a victim of deception.

I think 44 in response to this particular question is way creepy and to think that I have been speaking to this person for over 3 years.

Shouting "you're unwell" and "you need professional help" are classic examples of someone who has been caught red-handed.