45.1.3.5 > 55 regarding relationship

[kirstyshep]

Ive been chatting to a guy online recently. Its really sweet that hes giving me compliments etc but I cant help but feel uncomfortable because hes saying he wants a kiss from me when we meet tomorrow. I mean I dont even know if were going to be attracted to one another. People can be completely different in person.

He doesn't seem to be asking me questions about myself in order to get to know me but keeps saying hes excited?? I dont want to upset him by saying how do you know that we are going to be atttacted to eachother because thats me instantly putting a downer on things but it does spell desperate. He hasnt mentioned anything else sexual.

Im an attractive looking person so maybe thats whats driving him to be like that. We have discussed what were both looking for being a relationship...

I have always gone for messed up men in the past and told him that and also said im hoping to find someone nice this time around...

I asked i ching for guidance on his forwardness and added that its making me feel uncomfortable and drew hex 45.1.3.5 > 55 ... any insight?

What can i expect from tomorrows meeting with x? Hex 37.1.2.5 > 18

 

[blue_angel]

The first reading to me looks like a reflection of your feelings about it all. The second isn't so bad. I don't think he will mind if you go slower. Hold back the kisses and get to know each other a little more first. Looks like there could be a mutual attraction. Are you having dinner together?

He's a man. You're an attractive woman. Of course he wants to kiss you lol. But being a woman, remaining cautious and balanced I think is a good thing. Hold to your virtues and consider the rules and guidance of the women before you. The women in your family. Meet in a public place, like a restaurant, and have dinner. Have fun.

 

[kirstyshep]

Hi Blue angel yes i was worrying about the date before it happened. We had planned a country walk, sweet and simple. Perhaps first hexagram was reflecting my emotional state, deep down my heart lies with someone else, far away :-( so consequently called things off. Maybe we will talk again in the future though. Many thanks for your time and interesting answer. Love and light to you.