45.2.3.5.6 - Putting things in the right place

[siren]

Hello all,

Wanted to ask you for help once again to clarify my mind a little bit. I've been worrying about the time I'm spending on thinking about someone and I decided to ask to the I Ching for advice about this.

I asked today "what is the "place" that I should put him in my life" and received 45.2.3.5.6 moving to 50.

I also asked what is the I Ching advice about this association and received 32, so, as I feel it, I Ching advice is about continuing, stay on course.

Would you please help me with my first question?
Siren

 

[Trojina]

Hello all,

Wanted to ask you for help once again to clarify my mind a little bit. I've been worrying about the time I'm spending on thinking about someone and I decided to ask to the I Ching for advice about this.

I asked today "what is the "place" that I should put him in my life" and received 45.2.3.5.6 moving to 50.

I also asked what is the I Ching advice about this association and received 32, so, as I feel it, I Ching advice is about continuing, stay on course.

Would you please help me with my first question?
Siren

I'd say the reason the person is on your mind is that you need to process fully what happened/is happening between you. Theres likely to be some sorrow in this (45.6) Hex 50 is the cooking pot, whatever is in there is being transformed to something valuable. Some connections with others seem to take a lot processing which can be non stop preoccupation with the person or with them popping into your mind at odd times. But you asked about the place you should put him in your life ? Well my sense is the feelings around him are working through you rather than you working through them - as if you don't have that much choice on a conscious level about time spent thinking about him because your're working through something. I don't see any harm here really. Somethings cooking in you, give it time. Not sure of the nature of the connection or if it is beginning or ending so I'm just giving quick impressions really.

 

[siren]

Thanks, Trojan! Yes, I am working through something and that's how I feel it... We are getting closer - that's the nature of our relationship. I don't want to think about were we are going but we are just going somewhere. But, as I have him all the time in my mind and sometimes I loose track of how long time I spent just thinking about him -instead of work for example - well, I started to worry.

 

[siren]

Interesting... thanks, Twilight. It's the first time that I realize that what's bothering me is coming from the past.