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akath19

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Hey!

After much thought I realized the Yi is asking me to reflect in my relationship with the girl I've been posting about here, I just had a final question to ask, I asked "Is trying to become X's lover the right path?" and got 45.4.6 > 20.

Now i see this as reflecting on my relationship with her, find out by myself if it's the right path for me and then I'll be her lover.....now that doesn't make much sense, is that right?

Thank you for your answers!!
 

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I agree with your idea of reflection. A time of 20, time of making sure you 'oversee' the situation, your feelings, your future, anything you need to know or think about.

The lines of 45 are 45 its 8 and 45 its 12. Going on together - or not. Can you work together (8), become a team? Very important if you intend to spend a lifetime together. You will have to build up things in a strong way, and for that you have to really fit together. Mutual openness, trust, and in an honest way seeing the strong and weak sides of the other. If this is ok between you, then the Yi is very positive: sees it as a very good base: great auspiciousness.

And 45.6 (45 its 12): make yourself clear to each other, talk about what is important to you, share your dreams and worries and realities, really get to know each other. Then you will not have to decide anything, if those things go well together, your will have no doubts at all about wanting to be lovers. If they don't, you will drift apart all by itself.

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Thank you for your reply LiSe, I thought I was very out there in my interpretation but it seems that I'm not that bad!!, btw thank you for your awesome translation of the Yi, I use it as one of my 4 sources for interpretation (the others being Alfred Huang's Complete I Ching, Wilhelm's translation and a "modern version of the I Ching" called the celestial dragon Edition).

I just have 2 questions for you:

1) What do you mean exactly when you say "45 its 8 and 45 its 12", 'cause I really don't understand that but it seems to be important.

2) I've been doing my own interpretations of the questions I ask but somehow some answers seem to me like they're kinda hard for me to interpret, being that I have less than a month of experience in this, so I was wondering if you could help me with the next questions:


* What should I do in my relationship with X for the rest of this year? 34.1.4 -> 46

I see this as remaining strong in my relationship with her but not trying to push on, but merely staying and letting things develop by themselves for now.

* How can I make my physical relationship with X the type of relationship that I want? 9.2 -> 37

I see this as making little steps and not trying to make a giant leap of faith, it also caught my attention something related to working as "one heart and one mind" (I see it as having a joint project).

* What will my relationship with X be like by the end of this year? 19 unchanging

I see this like my relationship is going to get a lot better and probably near "completion" however now I'm kinda worried about the warning of the 8 month.

* What should I work on first in order for my relationship with X to become the one I want? 27.2.4 > 38

I honestly just don't get this one


Sorry for the long post but I could really use the help of someone who knows the Yi much better than I do (btw, could this forum be "the great person" that is referenced in Hex 46?)

Thanx


Julian



P.S.: If you wanna check it out the Celestial Dragon Edition tell me, it was available for free in a website but the site seems to be down now, but I still have a copy
 
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Julian,

It would be very helpful for the community if you could post what the outcome was of your relationship with the person you asked this question about.

Thanks,

Miakoda
 

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Well, the reading was a long time ago and I was in a different state of mind (turns out I was an addict and I didn't even know it).

Long story short, yes, it was the right path to pursue a relationship with her!!
 

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Thanks for updating this thread, though I'm sorry to hear that you've had troubles. Hope things are better for you now.

All best,

Miakoda
 

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