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45.4 to 8 - how to achieve it

milla

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Good evening,

I hope you can help me to interpret this answer within the context of my question: what can I do to regain his interest in me? I received 45.4 changing to 8.

would you help me?

Thank you,
Milla
 

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This response seems to refer to a group, not just your question about 'holding together' (H8) with one person.

If you read the text under H45, you'll see it speaks of being totally unselfish and being willing to make a sacrifice for the well being of the group. If you act this way, you will certainly succeed.

Personally, I always ask a second question of the I Ching whenever I receive H8, because I feel there's more there to know. I usually ask: "What do I need to know about that H8 I just received." You might be surprised or further guided by the response you receive.
 

milla

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Thank you, Ginnie. This answer makes a lot of sense because we are actually within a group of people as well.

I asked a second question as you suggested. What do I need to know about this H8 I just received? 9.2.3 to 42.

What do you think?
 

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Don't get confused by recent events. Line 3 moving speaks of a husband and wife who are angry at each other. It is said that disorder reigns within the household.

Right now with this relationship, don't make any plans to do anything at all. "Matters have not yet reached the point at which you may take action." Things will progress step by step, not all at once.

One interpretation of H42 is that it is your wish or the other person's wish right now to gain something or receive a certain benefit. However, this is a bit tricky in a H45 situation, which calls for consistent generosity and service from everybody in the group. What is called for in a H45 situation is how we can be of service, not how we can personally benefit.

On line 4 moving in H45: It is said to "have yang in a yin position." For this reason the line is said to be "inappropriate." It's the line of the second in command, who will need great flexibility and correctness to gather both those above and those below together.

It is not the leader. Yet in many other ways it is a wonderful line, and Karcher says: "This is not a mistake." If not everybody understands this, then nothing can be done right now about the lack of understanding. Since I don't know the actual situation, it's hard for me to comment further on that.

Read the text under Hexagram 9. Matters will work out okay, but it will take some time. Do not argue with anybody. Take the long view. Tolerate people instead of quarreling with them. When we argue with people, they only get more oppositional and angry themselves. Nothing is going to get settled instantly.
 

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