46.3.5>29 Q: what do I do about this girl

[kajiggers]

I've got a crush on this girl, we've been on one date, two weeks ago, and since then I've been unable to get her too agree to another one (we met at a dance floor though, and spent half the evening talking and dancing), she's either busy with work, or has already made other plans, and sometimes she ignores my texts. Then I call her up and we have a really nice hour long conversation, and since we were both busy for the next two days we agree to talk again soon. We do, but she's in a rush, so, later. Today I texted her, two hours later called her, but no response. From my perspective it appears as though she's undecided what to do with me, so I was thinking, maybe she's trying to hook up with someone else. Oh, and we're both in our low thirties.

I interpret the reading as somewhat mixed, does it suggest I just wait until she contacts me, or that I should take baby steps and keep pushing slowly, shoot another text, another call? Is there anything there for me or do I just move on?

Usually I wouldn't make a big deal out of those things as girls come and go, but this particular one, seems to fit like a glove, every facet of her personality suits me, we think alike and share the same sense of humor. So I'm really unwilling to just forfeit... am I kicking a dead horse?

 

[pocossin]

Send flowers. If you don't get an acknowledgement, leave off and wait for her to approach you. P.S. I am in the florist business.

 

[goddessliss]

I'm agreed with pocossin on this - gentle persuasion (Hex 46), take your time and if that means not contacting to see how she responds....well that's a good idea.
You know that book/movie 'He Just No That Into You' same goes for the other way around. - Liss

 

[mulberry]

3 and 5 are positive lines but I associate 3 with situations where things go smoothly and seem great, but lack substance. Does that make sense? "Pushing upward into an empty city". Things seem easy and smooth, but is there real substance? Still, it's not a negative line--it is about easy progress. I just think you may find out that either she wasn't as great as you thought (sorry for the downer!) or, you may meet someone else more exciting before anything really goes anywhere with this girl.

5 is also positive and I agree with Liss and Pocossin that that line is telling you that you don't need to push hard for success. Just let it be. Don't contact her too much. If you both texted and called without a response, she might be seeing someone else (but who knows how seriously? maybe not at all). Wait until next week to try again if she doesn't text back.

Good luck!

 

[kajiggers]

Thank you all. I will keep you posted.

 

[ginnie]

As an additional note, sometimes 46.3 means that the other person is ill or all tired out for some reason. In other words, even though she is a young woman and you are assuming she has a normal amount of energy for her age, maybe she is sick.

 

[kajiggers]

I'm 100% sure she's not sick, or lacking energy.

 

[goddessliss]

and then..... gosh we could start a creative writing group and finish all the updates needed on clarity stories - using the Yi to guide us of course!