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kdedeaux4

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I'm hoping for some better insight than I have on this reading. I have a friend whom I met online in a card playing site. We became very good friends and played cards together regularly, and called, and texted each other occasionally. We never met in person, but he was a wonderful friend to me when I endured some terrible losses.

Things were fun and flirty, but not "romantic" between us, as I always assumed he was married (he spoke of his children), but I never asked directly if he was married.
Anyway, things got odd when I started playing with another person regularly on that site because he wasn't free to play often. I think he might have been jealous, but I don't know that for sure. We had a little bit of an argument/misunderstanding.
So, after that little tiff, I received a cryptic message from him saying just, "I'm in so much pain".
I did not understand if he meant "pain" because we had had a little fight, or physical "pain" or maybe something was going on in his life that was causing pain or if he was sick....? I did not understand at all. I kept asking him what was going on; why was he in pain.
He never replied and he never showed up again on the card site. That was a year ago last July.
I feel silly because this was just an online card playing friend, but I really thought we were actually friends and I was so grateful for his friendship. I worry about him daily.
So, I asked the Iching what was going on with my friend and I received Hex 46 4.5.6. --> hexagram 44.

The lines make it sound like he's okay at least since the very first line(46.4) says, "things go well. Nothing is wrong." And that's the most important thing to know, but I'm curious what might be the overall message with this reading. I'm terrible at interpreting for myself because I'm just looking for what I want to hear.

I hope someone will help me with some objective insight in this reading?
 

seakelp4003

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I think 46 could be interpreted as the past - how you felt about them and how positive the experience was for you both. Hexagram 44 takes on a bit more of an ominous tone - "one must not marry the maiden." I think it's saying you had fun, and the experience was enriching, but try not to take it any further than that. To levy any more emotion of thought into this person won't make you happy.Focus on you! Instead of worrying about him, focus on yourself and try not to bog yourself down with how they're feeling. I hope this helped :)
 

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Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this, Seakelp! You're right. I probably shouldn't bother worrying so much about a friend I met on some silly game site's well being. He was a cherished friend for a moment and obviously that moment and the friendship I thought developed with it, is just gone with the wind for whatever reason. It is what it is and c'est la vie, I suppose.

Thank you:)
 

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