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47.3.4 to 48 - how can i heal from the X situation aside from meeting someone new?

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hello again :) I am struggling with healing over a hurt involving someone I cared about and connected with strongly on my part and seem to be moving forward but every few months I take a few steps back in the sadness and depression stakes! I asked the IC

"How can I heal from the X situation aside from meeting someone new?"

I got 47.3.4 leading to 48 which I took to mean that I'm weighed down with oppressive conditioned thoughts (line 3) and that healing will eventually come but unless I free my mind of those thoughts it will happen much slower (but it will still happen if I do my best). Not sure about the 48??

I then asked "How long will it take for me to get that freedom of mind i.e. within a few months or longer?"

I got 34.3 leading to 54 which I took to mean it will all happen if I act with thought and strategy as opposed to pushing forward with an aggressive desire to be free???

:confused: So based on that I also asked "How can I free my mind of this oppression?"

I got 44 unchanging - this is about opening yourself to welcome what comes i.e. don't try to control an intense encounter. It talks about a brief encounter????

So I then finally asked "Will I experience an intense encounter in the next few months?"

I got 63.2.4.6 changing to 1

I took this to mean that what is meant to come to me will (and it will), but that I shouldn't relax about it but rather always be cautious because I could trip up at any time and lose it. Does this sound right??? How accurate is the IC if you ask for a certain time frame i.e. "a few months" in this case?

This last question is very similar to one I posted earlier this week that Willowfox kindly responded to i.e. I asked if I was going to meet a life partner that I liked a lot and I got 62.1.4.5 to 63 which seems quite similar to this answer! i.e. Willowfox said I would meet someone but whether I would hang on to him or not would be another story. And that a period of waiting was in order so perhaps 6 months away i.e. October....

thanks in advance to anyone who can help me out. I am truly wishing with all my soul to heal over this situation so I can move on, but I get road blocks every now and then which bring me right down...:brickwall:

I hope I have interpreted the IC correctly enough to have asked all these questions - but either way they can stand alone so I would appreciated any feedback.

Jazzy :)
 

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I am struggling with healing over a hurt involving someone I cared about and connected with strongly on my part and seem to be moving forward but every few months I take a few steps back in the sadness and depression stakes! I asked the IC

"How can I heal from the X situation aside from meeting someone new?"

I got 47.3.4 leading to 48
Try not to become too frustrated with slow progress, cling to what you value, your inner strength, and those that support you now.
I then asked "How long will it take for me to get that freedom of mind i.e. within a few months or longer?"
I got 34.3 leading to 54
34.3 Place your energies in recognizing your strengths and identifying true support systems.You need not put a time constraint on the healing process.
54 There have been changes taking place within yourself, have you recognized them? If so, then it be better to lay low until you are sure of how you willl express these changes.
So based on that I also asked "How can I free my mind of this oppression?" I got 44 unchanging
Balance and center yourself within first, and all else will fall into place.
So I then finally asked "Will I experience an intense encounter in the next few months?" I got 63.2.4.6 changing to 1
There is great energy here to be utilized properly(Hex 1).
63 asks if you are centered enough for a challenge.
Advises to be balanced(line 2).
Warding off doubts that all is for your own good(line 4).
The importance of being patient(line 6).
How accurate is the IC if you ask for a certain time frame i.e. "a few months" in this case?
IMHO, don't think the I-Ching is about time frames. The point is to release yourself from desire and fear to heal. Time demands seem to reinforce the need for proof, or a release of the lessons the Universe is trying to instill. Only ego wishes to know everything before hand, asking how long to endure before it gets its reward.
I am truly wishing with all my soul to heal over this situation so I can move on, but I get road blocks every now and then which bring me right down.
It is said that the Universe works in a zigzag manner. It seldom goes in straight lines no matter how hard we wish to resolve something. So just because you take some steps back every so often does not mean you have not grown from your experiences or have healed to a certain extent.
 

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47 > 48 is an interesting change. In 47, the water is pulled downward, exhausting the once vibrant marsh. In 48, the water is pulled upward to strengthen and nourish the whole community. So reverse the flow. The vital energy is still there inside you, you just need to find a way to reconnect with it and draw it back up.

47.3 suggests to me that you were so emotionally tied and dependent on this relationship that you became blind your own genuine worth. 47.4 says to persevere in your journey out of depression. Sometimes you may feel like you're not making any progress, but don't give up. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. You'll get there eventually.
 
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Please focus in the first answer; forget about asking for another person, another meeting. Unless you find the way to stand firm by yourself, alone, you won't solve the depression. I pray for your healing. It is posible. have faith
 

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