47.4.6>59 and 59.4.6>47

[yiyione]

What should I know about...my desire to going out/be with this man" and Yi's answer, 47.4.6 to 59.
I see it is about to correct and dissolve some past assumptions and habits which is the wall. being less rigid, and reach out to others.

then, I ask yijing, do you referring to give up my assumptions and habitual fear of rejection, distrust, fear of being played in the interaction with this man, and just accept and express my affection? and yijing answer, 59.4.6>47
so, can I read that yijing refers to my reading and give me a response that I spot on the problem that I need to face and work on with myself, my own fears and assumptions and habitual patterns.

I am just amazed by yijing by giving me these two answers,and somehow something that universe is talking to me, so I would like to know what the messages are, and want to work on to correct my own habits and being more opening up. are my two interpretations right? any response are very appreciated! :bows:

 

[ginnie]

I think Yi is saying this man drains you. You need to "disperse the crowds" -- be alone for a little while to see the big picture. The I Ching considers you strong enough to extricate yourself from the danger in this relationship.

 

[yiyione]

Hi Ginnie, thanks for your reply! some little events happened in these days. His behaviors have being back and forth, indecisive which really drains my time and energy. particularly, I am in a very stressful and crucial transition point of my life and career projects. My friend commented that his behavior is like a jerk... not very straightforward.. playing little games. I guess what yijing and my friend both see much clear than my own interpretation. I really need to be alone without this man. thank you!!