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loulisnowdrop

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A good friend is awaiting some results which are as yet unknown. I really want him to be happy with the outcome but I am doubting his chances of success. I haven't shared my doubts with him though.
I have said I'll stand by him whatever the outcome and I genuinely meant that but I don't know how I can best apply that promise.

I asked how can I best support him and I received 47.6>6

LiSe says of line 6:
Tied to creepers and vines, to unsteadiness and anxiousness. Says moving causes regret. Have regret. Effectuate that things be set right: auspicious.
Every ability comes from out the mind. If the mind says you cannot, then you can not. So exercise your mind, rather than your hands. When you stop believing in obstacles, the mind removes its shackles, and only then your movements can be free.


I have a few ideas of how to interpret this but each interpretation gives a different route to follow. The 1st idea is that this line is not giving me advice on how to support my friend but is describing my uncertanties about how to do so. Being tied to creepers and vines, unsteady and anxious about things.

My next thought is that the line describes my doubts of his success and that my mind is shackled because I'm believing in obstacles. Possibly this worry about supporting him is premature and causing me to become overly anxious. Therefore I should stop concerning myself with obstacles that may not exist. I have to admit, he seems much calmer than I feel with regard to the outcome.

There is one last thought I have of this line but I really don't like it... Moving causes regret. Have regret. I should move away from the situation even though I may regret doing so? That doesn't sound very supportive but if I link it to the text of 47 then maybe if I don't move away, I will become exhausted.

Does anybody have past experience they'd be willing to share with this line or be willing to put forward an aspect I may have missed?
 

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It doesn't say "moving causes difficulties" it only says that that is what one is telling oneself....and what one is telling oneself here is not true. Those creepers are just creepers, they can't bind you/him.

In a nutshell this line says there's far too much worrying, far too much anxiety....no need for it at all. let it go. You don't need to be worrying about thing except perhaps believing far too much in the things you believe are holding you back

You don't need to doubt him or help him by the looks of it...just don't infect him with your unfounded worries
 

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I haven't shared my doubts with him. I have no intention of infecting him with that.

Maybe I am worrying about it too much though and it would be nice if the outcome is a happy one where there is no need for emotional support.
 

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Well you actually nailed it here

My next thought is that the line describes my doubts of his success and that my mind is shackled because I'm believing in obstacles. Possibly this worry about supporting him is premature and causing me to become overly anxious. Therefore I should stop concerning myself with obstacles that may not exist. I have to admit, he seems much calmer than I feel with regard to the outcome.


For someone with doubts and worries this is a great answer. What you fear has no real hold at all....all that holds you are worries for him it seems. yet he is less worried than you.
 
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Hi loulisnowdrop,
I'm with Trojan on this. Chillax - you say you haven't shared your anxieties with him but energetically he can probably pick it up. The best way to support him is to calm down and trust. - Liss
 

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