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48.4.5>32 Show me a picture of my mindset relating to my relationship with him.

kforchange

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So a previous reading said that I need to examine my mindset, and perhaps change it if I keep having the same thing happen over and over again in my relationships. So I asked this, Show me a picture of my mindset relating to my relationship with him. getting 48.4.5 transforming to 32

my initial thoughts on this message is that I look outward to my partners for my source of love and connection, and though the partners change, I keep on looking for that same source, therefore it is time to look within for what I need. Transforming figure describes how I feel about the nature of the relationship from his side, a lack of commitment for success and we fell at the first hurdle, when I felt we needed to work through.

Have you experts have any thoughts? I am not a very visual person, I find visualising things quite difficult so I am often confused the Ching please bare with me!

Many Thanks
 
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Hi Kforchange. The picture I get is of someone who oscillates between not feeling like enough in herself and experiencing inner abundance (lines 4 and 5). And this is pretty normal, of course. I wonder - what do you consider the sources of stability in your life (32)? What are the things to which you keep returning - for example a hobby, a form of exercise, a place?
 

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The well, where you draw water from. In line 4 the well is lined, ready to hold water and be used. In line 5 yi says drink! This water will sustain you. 32 ' steady the helm of the heart' 'it furthers to have somewhere to go'. 32 is often associated with marriages or relationships which we have commited ourselves to and endure. It would seem you've bonded with this person and the bond is well lined and gives you sustainence to drink. This could only possibly be dangerous if the other person hasn't likewise bonded with you, which can be the case unfortunately. The time to decide and descern if someone is worth bonding to comes in those early days of first knowing them. Afterwards that 32 steadiness is hard to stop, the bond painful to break; especially if it sustains you. Your wisdom to look within is beautiful and here's the thing about humans, the inner connection and emotional stability is essential for deep and wonderful connections with others. However, on its own, looking within is simply not enough, there simply are areas of the lived experience which can't be done alone and connecting deeply with another who is the right choice for you is one of those areas. It takes at least two people xx
 

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Hi Weaver
and thanks for your time and consideration of my question! the oscillation resonates with me and I am working on connecting inner and outer, light and shadow, I'm at the beginning of that journey. My inner abundance comes from my creative creations which brings me peace, calm and pleasure. I trust in those things that I make; mainly, organic, botanic based body, and household products. I have always loved doing this and I have educated myself on the knowledge and my intuition flows so easily with the creation side. the other of the coin is the lack of self belief that I can take this anywhere in my life.
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ChingChing, Thank you!
Your response is so insightful. I have bonded with him, deeply and it seems that he did not bond with me in the same way, I think an important thing here is that I should not get my sustenance from without (from another) I really need to find my sustenance within myself, this is very hard and at the age of 43, new to me! perhaps I bond to easily, I am working on all of this because I hoped and believed that this relationship would endure! perhaps I was complacent. Since this original post, he has been in touch enquiring about how I am, I asked the Yi why he made contact with 24 uc s my answer, is he returning to a place where he can finally be honest with himself and me or is he returning to loving me...

so many thanks, the work continues
 
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It is interesting that you find peace and happiness making these nourishing things for other people, kforchange. Would it help if you think of putting them into the world as part of the process of letting something happen through you, rather than your doing something? I wish you the very best!
 

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