50.2.5.6 >31

[Mayorka]

So, a question for my interior designer, who even though we are good friends he doesn't add me in any social network.
I feel that I am a threat for his relationship...

What is the reason that he doesn't add me?
50.2.5.6 > 31
He has a relationship and she is jealous so he doesn't want to make her feel this way.
From the next lines 5 and 6 I am not sure what the lines are about. Maybe, line 6 last line of hex 50 shows the end of the relationship/food between them.. I am wondering if the hex 31 shows that he will add me finally.

Just curious..

 

[Maritoni]

So, a question for my interior designer, who even though we are good friends he doesn't add me in any social network.
I feel that I am a threat for his relationship...

What is the reason that he doesn't add me?
50.2.5.6 > 31
He has a relationship and she is jealous so he doesn't want to make her feel this way.
From the next lines 5 and 6 I am not sure what the lines are about. Maybe, line 6 last line of hex 50 shows the end of the relationship/food between them.. I am wondering if the hex 31 shows that he will add me finally.

Just curious..

He wanted to protect their relationship.

 

[Matali]

Hello,

50.2.5.6 – 31 why it does not add you on social networks: 50 is the hexagram of the cauldron that leads you to a promising new road. You have 31 in associated hexagram, or as a backdrop: it is your search for union, and also his union with his girlfriend.
50.2 he is cooking his relationship in the cauldron of transformation. He is not doing things against you. Simply, you are in a working relationship. Facebook is sometimes a private sphere in some people. Line 2 advises you not to be saddened by this situation. He knew this woman before he knew you, you have nothing to do with it.
Line 5 about a good collaboration for both of you, but also about a person who continues his journey...
Line 6 speaks of the open cauldron (a line of great omen): in my opinion, there is spirituality here, perhaps a piece of advice to open yourself to this spiritual dimension: do you do yoga, meditation? Or any other activities that could accompany you to your soul and to love...

 

[Mayorka]

I don't understand.. If sb see you as a friend there is no reason to avoid you in social networks.. Especially, if you cooperate in professional level. It doesn't seem to be so friendly finally...

 

[Matali]

Do yoga

 

[Mayorka]

Do yoga

Yoga isn't my cup of tea.. I prefer more energetically effective high-intensity intermittent training methods.

 

[redoleander]

What is the reason that he doesn't add me?
50.2.5.6 > 31

Looks simply like he doesn’t know you well enough or consider it important enough, and that he has something very valuable as it already is and wants to keep it the same.

 

[dfreed]

What is the reason that he doesn't add me?
50.2.5.6 > 31

Perhaps he has a different idea of what his 'social network' (SN) means. Some people have many, many (even thousands of) 'friends' in there SN, and some - perhasps this person - only have a group of close friends as their SN. And maybe your working relationship - even if its friendly and productive - doesn't make you a part of his circle.

Borrowing from - and modifying a bit - Bradford Hatcher's 50.2: 'Counterparts (you) have anxieties' (your own interests, worries, etc.). And you are 'simply not in his scope of pursuits'.

I'm curious - I think in other posts you were asking about a guy, a love interest, who was in a relationship, and not available. Do you have some romantic interest in your interior designer as well? If this is true and he's already with someone, that would explain things.

 

[marybluesky]

He has something valuable & wants to maintain it in the best way possible. That's why he hasn't added you.

Why does he think like that? We can't say.

 

[Mayorka]

He has something valuable & wants to maintain it in the best way possible. That's why he hasn't added you.

Why does he think like that? We can't say.

Perhaps she is already jealous because we spend time with her boyfriend. Even for just professional level...

 

[Mayorka]

Perhaps he has a different idea of what his 'social network' (SN) means. Some people have many, many (even thousands of) 'friends' in there SN, and some - perhasps this person - only have a group of close friends as their SN. And maybe your working relationship - even if its friendly and productive - doesn't make you a part of his circle.

Borrowing from - and modifying a bit - Bradford Hatcher's 50.2: 'Counterparts (you) have anxieties' (your own interests, worries, etc.). And you are 'simply not in his scope of pursuits'.

I'm curious - I think in other posts you were asking about a guy, a love interest, who was in a relationship, and not available. Do you have some romantic interest in your interior designer as well? If this is true and he's already with someone, that would explain things.

No no, he has 4000 friends everywhere because of his job..

 

[dfreed]

he has 4000 friends everywhere because of his job

Okay, good to know. And I'm still wondering if there is any romantic / love interest on your part?

 

[Trojina]

Well yes it's the same guy from the other threads where Mayorka tells of her strong feelings for him isn't it ? I'm open to correction Mayorka if it isn't the same guy?


If it is the same guy then don't you have to accept he's in a relationship and so simply not available to you. It probably doesn't feel that simple but it is what it boils down to.

 

[dfreed]

Well yes it's the same guy from the other threads

So, you're saying the guy and love interest (and I believe coworker?) from many past posts is the same guy in this post, whom is now described as her interior designer? I did not get that sense, but regardless, in both cases, i think they are 'both' in relationships and are not available.

 

[Trojina]

I thought it was same guy. As she is in hospitality industry letting out villas and so on it may be interior designer is also coworker. That is if she is renting out holiday lets and so on she would possibly use a designer for her properties perhaps. In another thread she spoke of either having pools or jacuzzis at her rental properties so I can see where a designer might be involved. I could be wrong.

Apologies for talking about you Mayorka, hopefully you can straighten it out for us.

 

[Mayorka]

Trojina is right.

About him... Friend or a lover?

Ok, just to clear the situation about him... the one I have posted and I am really confused now... My interior designer... Is our relationship only professional? Are we really friends? Or there is indeed love interest? In case people don't know what I mean...

www.onlineclarity.co.uk

 

[redoleander]

Perhaps she is already jealous because we spend time with her boyfriend. Even for just professional level...

50.2 represents him having something of value and I believe you are the afflicted companion. “Cannot come near”. It speaks exactly to the query. You are the afflicted person (the jealous person; jealous of their relationship) on the outside, I believe, since your question is essentially about why you’re left out in the cold and not accepted in his social media. Something valuable that’s not yours or of which you are not a part is being protected.