50 unchanging

[Icecoldkitkat]

I have an close friend 'almost' boyfriend that is in quarantine for a while now. I asked on two occasion - 1. What is his purpose in my life? And after I had some medical news which will probably make our intimacy impossible I asked - 2. What is our future? Both gave hex 50 unchanging. What would you expect? What is your experience? I fist thought it was extremely positive showing stable nourishment brewing but now I have doubts since the medical issues. Well I will know how serious they are soon fingers crossed.

 

[Trojina]

Did you know there's a few of threads of yours where people answered but you never went back at all ?

Did he ever love me from 2018

A new person

A bit early to go back to this one but still

If someone never comes back then the thread is of little use for the archives or for the people who responded who may like to know how their responses worked out. When you read old threads don't you want to see how things played out ?

 

[Trojina]

50uc, everything is in the pot to cook. There's a new order being established but it can take a while for things to be 'cooked through'. Lots of different ingredients coming together in life all cooking up to make a different life.

There's times when we're actually making a new life out of all the things we currently have in it.

It can be all the different things in your life blend to have impact on and transform one another. If you are ill or have a health worry for example you soon get to see whether your new/prospective boyfriend is kind or not, what he will do for you. So you being ill at the same time as the relationship develops affects the nature of the relationship and the relationship may impact on your reaction to the medical worry. The medical worry might impact on your working life and reconsider hours or happiness at work and this connects with everything else in your life. In 49 the old skin was shed, in 50 the new order can begin and it begins not so much through a process of making decisions one by one but by each element slightly changing other elements in the same life.


The 50uc thread

 

[rosada]

What is his purpose in my life?
50. His purpose is to have a transforming effect.
What is our future?
50. The relationship will have to be transformed and remade.

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

Did you know there's a few of threads of yours where people answered but you never went back at all ?

That's fair to call me out on that... They were all about the same person. It's been a rocky ride and we actually stayed on talking terms. He just came back last week actually after his relationship broke and I talked about mindset and approach over and over again (whenever his relationship breaks). Still, somehow I feel that it's okay the way it is and I do not want to be hanging out but if I can have him challenge his attitude and become more mindful it's totally worth it for me.

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

What is his purpose in my life?
50. His purpose is to have a transforming effect.
What is our future?
50. The relationship will have to be transformed and remade.

That'd be great if that could happen!! Neither of us though it'll go anywhere but we got stuck really liking each other and don't want it to be just some fling haha

I like this literal way of interpreting

@Trojina I feel what you said 'In 49 the old skin was shed, in 50 the new order can begin' is already becoming true. I reevaluated our 'relationship' based on what happened medically and gained a new perspective and feel more free and happy now