51.1.2.3.4 Means I'm truly messed up right now?

[salmoo]

I posted earlier about my reading of 51.3 regarding my boyfriend moving out but us still carrying on a relationship. I asked the IChing today "What will happen if I continue a relationship w/ *******?" It gave me 51.1.2.3.4... I interpreted it as it telling me to run away in fear (I was thinking of ending the relationship so that I wouldn't get my heart broke if he decided to end it first) and to get a grip on myself and everything will work out if I come to accept the situation and practice patience (not an easy thing for me). Can anyone else help me to interpret this before I lose my mind and composure?

 

[Trojina]

I answered your other thread....as no one else had.

Main thing is your kids being messed up or not. If you are messed up over someone who can't take any responsibility or commitment it won't help them.

51 ? Doesn't it say some thing like 'in fear and trembling the superior man sets his life in order' ?

What matters here ? What's important ?

'Love' is not what people say, it is what they do. I think 46 is the relating hexagram here.....

Move on ....


I don't know the full circumstances so I may be wrong.

BTW

Can anyone else help me to interpret this before I lose my mind and composure?

well 51 is all about losing your mind and composure....but the important thing is not to. You can't afford to can you ?