52.3.6 > 2 : how do I get rid this feeling?

[Flax90s]

My relationship ended 6 months ago. I'll be honest, I am still hurting beyond words. I'm so exhausted. I'm so tired. I wonder all the time, how much longer I have to endure. I try to convince myself, I try to let it go. I tell myself many times a day. I don't know what to do anymore.
I Ching advised: 52.3.6 > 2
I interpret it as: be still (52) but don't put too much force or it will suffocate u (.3). Just let things happen (2).

I don't see .6 fitting anywhere. I am everything but calm and peaceful.

 

[Sixth Relative]

Hi Flax90s

I don't see 56.6 as a description of where you are now but an invitation about where to get.

The advise is to achieve calmness, to focus in the here and now, not letting your thoughts and emtions wonder without control. At first it can feel that this is somehow forced and suffocating but with perseverance you'll achieve calmness.

Wish you the best

 

[loverofknowledge]

Hi, each of the moving lines of 52 centers on a particular part of the body from the toes (line1) to the whole being (line 6). Line 3 says that by not moving the torso, there is pain or suffocation. I understand that as: allow your emotions to breathe, rather than repressing them. Then line 6 is the end of stillness, simultaneously as your whole being finds stillness, a kind of healing. This way you will open the way to hex 2, which is to receive something new in your life, and to be restored.

 

[rosada]

Dear Flax,
The image of 52 advises keeping ones thoughts in the present as in not worrying about the future or obsessing about the past. However 52.3 cautions that this isn't always easy to do as stifling feelings isn't good. 52.6 offers encouragement that eventually you will find peace.

52.3 Don't stifle your feelings.
A personal experience about healing - in the weeks after my late husband passed away I visited about 20 friends individually and gave them a picture of him and told them the events of his last days. (I did this because his memorial wasn't going to be held right away) Because this meant I was repeating the story over and over to sympathetic ears I think this greatly helped in my sorting through what had happened and allowed me to more quickly release the past and move on. Perhaps you would get benefit from doing something similar like writing out the whole story of your relationship or at least the break-up. I think when you put something on paper it helps put some 52. Limits to it and releases it from your head.

Best wishes,
rosada