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53.1.2 (which is the obstacle)?

lalafree

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Hello!!
I'm new in this blog and I don't have much experience with the I ching interpretation.
The book came into my path anyway...so I decide to ask a question.

The context is a relationship I'm having with this person for almost a 1 year! We have been sharing a great intellectual attraction and great passion... common interests, great complicity, alchemy, true friendship..and all seems have great potential. BUT this relationship never turned into a normal LOVE STORY (he is not my boyfriend). he's choice of course!!..but he never gave an explanation that makes sense, no real reasons, considering the fact that he does't want to let me go!!!

So I asked the I ching: which is the obstacle that prevent this relationship to turn into a love story?

The answer is 53.1.2
That means there are not obstacle but is just a matter of time?

What's your advice regarding this reading?

Thank you!!
 
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It seems whatever the obstacle is, is not your cause or fault. There for not for you to figure out or really do anything about. 53 is already such a very slow and gradual progress. Taking all the proper, almost baby steps to progress into a relationship or marriage that may never happen. Add 9 to the mix of 53, seems to slow the process even more. Seems basically you can not force any direction on this. You can only enjoy the time when you do have it. Enjoy the meals and laughter. Be satisfied with that and let what good will come, come naturally.

In a way it seems what you have now, is all there is to it. What you see is what you get. Enjoy it, exactly the way it is.
 

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Thank you for your help!! Interesting point of you! ..
I think sometimes when you are too involved its more difficult to have a clear vision.

I'll think about it!

and I ask the I CHing .. for a more clear idea...
which is going to be the evolution of this relationship?

answer 8.4
???
before getting to enthusiastic ...i wanna hear your interpretation!!!

Thanks!!
 
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I have several ideas for this line. Since you asked how "will the relationship evolve", it seems the answer is (you will continue to seek unity with him and persvere through it).

45 is usually a group unity for me. Neither 8 nor 45 have ever been a very romantic type unity for me. But a unity nevertheless. A couple of other thoughts that come to mind is, are there close friends or others that you both
gather with? That could be your 45. Either way
it seems the unity is good. But doesn't come
without its worries. Which is "normal" if you
think about it.

Asking how something will evolve is good, Yi can give you an idea, but in a relationship it takes two and who knows where the other is in all of this or how day to day life changes, but seems you will persevere through the changes, maybe. Easier to be right here in this moment. The other thing about this line I have read is you'll need to do what is good for you. Myself or anyone else can not really tell you what is good for you. Only you know that, we can only give you ideas.
 

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