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53.1.3.6 to 3 ~ Relationship Question

MillionSun

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I recently met someone whom I really like but they live in a different country. Due to constraints of distance and the difficulty of travel right now, I questioned where this relationship is heading and the answer I got was 53.1.3.6 to 3.

I’m not particularly experienced with I Ching readings but it seems positive. I’d to hear more opinions on the reading and get some help interpreting the changing lines in 53.

Much thanks 🙏
 

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53.1 Something very young, like a new idea, something that will need more commitment to progress.
53.3 A warning not to do something in haste.
53.6 Something that has reached it's ultimate potential.

3. Confusion preventing progress.

Where is this relationship headed?
I see hexagram 3 as pointing to all the obstacles you have mentioned so it does appear that in order for this relationship to grow you are going to have to sort out some things. The lines seem to reference your current state and to me emphasize that the friendship is very new and lines 3 and 4 seem to warn that taking it further may not be possible. I see the main message as here is in hexagram 3. describing the necessity of lots of back and forth talk between the two of you to be clear you both even want more, and then the advice to get more help, perhaps as to all the legalities and ways to bring order out of confusion.
 

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53.1 Something very young, like a new idea, something that will need more commitment to progress.
53.3 A warning not to do something in haste.
53.6 Something that has reached it's ultimate potential.

3. Confusion preventing progress.

Where is this relationship headed?
I see hexagram 3 as pointing to all the obstacles you have mentioned so it does appear that in order for this relationship to grow you are going to have to sort out some things. The lines seem to reference your current state and to me emphasize that the friendship is very new and lines 3 and 4 seem to warn that taking it further may not be possible. I see the main message as here is in hexagram 3. describing the necessity of lots of back and forth talk between the two of you to be clear you both even want more, and then the advice to get more help, perhaps as to all the legalities and ways to bring order out of confusion.
Tbh I gave more emphasis to hexagram 53 due to the marriage references. The main message coming from 3 makes more sense now that you mention it. Thanks for pointing this out and for the interpretation of the lines!
 

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I just want to add that personally I think if you like the guy you shouldn't let these lines discourage you. The lines of hexagram 3 tell you how to deal with confusion at the beginning and conclude that you have to create a whole new perspective. Maybe ask the I Ching, "How will my future self describe this friendship?" Like, find out if in hindsight you're going to describe this man as "The Love of My Life!" or "Worst Mistake I Ever Made!" I'm thinking this could give you a clue as to how much effort you should put into sorting out the issues.

Many couples live in foreign countries and only see each other face to face a few times a year.
 

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I asked about the future like you suggested and got 39.1.4.6 to 13 - Limping and People in Harmony. The messages appear contradictory… what’s the connection between the two and in what order should I be reading these?

 

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39 ~ limping 13 ~ people in harmony

like Rosada said this connection is new you need to give it time and patients to evolve. So the situation is “limping” into harmony, which 13 to me is just like people getting along friendship and things like that. Nothing of an extremely personal nature.

39.1 ~ don’t try to pushing things forward too quickly. The line says staying stationary has praise.
39.4 ~ again the advice is to stay stationary and you’ll unite with the line above
39.6 ~ again another stationary line, if you remain still and don’t push forward you’ll get to meet with the “great man”

all that leads to 13 people in harmony. So I guess be chill about the connection work on yourself and a friendship with him and let him travel to you. That’s the future, don’t try to travel to him. Let him come to you when the time is right. I’m kinda new at this so sorry if my reading doesn’t resonate

love and light!
 

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If this were my older wiser self trying to help guide me now I think I'm telling me that there is some sort of obstruction I need to be more aware of (39.1). What might that obstruction be? The physical restrictions and red tape or something even more profound like your hearts are already promised to others, you just didn't know it yet, so play it cool for now.

Then at 39.4 could be my future self alerting me that he may not share the same vision for where this could be headed so again don't rock the boat.

Finally 39.6 describes acting with the highest of intentions. Perhaps advising me that even if it turns out this fellow and I aren't destined to be more than friends, this could prove to be...

13. A very good friendship.
 

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