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I had a very special encounter with a man who is 15 years old than me. It was in the most unexpected place: the subway. Before that I don't believe in "love at first sight", but after this encounter, I believe in it. From the first moment I knew he is a married man, with 2 children. There is such special attraction between us that made me feel if I'd meet him 10 or 20 years earlier, if I was born a bit earlier, or he later, he'd be the one.
Afterwards we met up and saw each other for several times. For him staying as a clandestine love affair is comfortable as soon as I won't disturb his evenings and weekends. I decide to cut the relationship and ask him to not contact me anymore, because I know he'll not divorce, and I do not want to suffer from being with a man who is not available.
After I took this decision, I feel very very sad..., it has been such long time I do not meet a special person like him (who reminds of me of my first boyfriend) and I can not stop thinking about him, even it only last for 2 weeks and it sounds ...... crazy.
What can 53.6 to 39 reveal ?
Before I made this decision (out of defense mechanism). I had another prediction which is 38.6 to 54. I think if I didn't make the step to cut, I might have been comfortable with the situation as "second wife" indicated in 54 the marring maiden.
38.6 might be the initial defensive mechanism. I lose that defense after some meetings with him and enveloped myself with being in love. But in the last meeting, some words from him, little gesture reminds me of my past wounds so I shut it down all of a sudden. I am still recovering from it. Still don't know if it is good decision, very tempting to contact him again.
But I am sure I'll get over him.
I agree with what everyone's said here and that you've made the right decision, but I can also see how 38.6 could be confusing.
For him staying as a clandestine love affair is comfortable as soon as I won't disturb his evenings and weekends.
But I totally feel with you and I understand that it is easy to fall into such a situation. Because chemistry between people doesn't care if one of them is married, too young, too old or what kind of attributes that are inappropriate you want to add...
Maybe he is a good person at heart and really has feelings for her and the situation was far from being convenient for him, but even more like hell?
We are all just humans and it is definitely possible that you fall for somebody head over heels while you are married and have children. That doesn't make you a pig or a devil.
Don't do that -- I just want to remember that things are not always as black and white as they appear.
Maybe 38.6 is saying, that your lesson is to let him got WITHOUT devaluing his motifs regarding your relationship. I know that this makes it even harder: to know that the chemistry is overwhelmingly good, the feelings are probably true and reciprocated-- but outer circumstances are simply against it.
I just think if I'd gotten this line I might very well have been confused and/or made the wrong decision. A person probably has to be very careful about what's what in 38.6, and why, and how, and putting everything in its right slot.
Also people really do not have to be at the mercy of their chemistry. If they are then probably getting married was not such a good idea. You seem to think that if a person has feelings they simply cannot help what they do.
It may be possible, well of course it's possible, it doesn't mean you have to seek to have a clandestine affair and if you do have a clandestine affair then at least have the decency to have a proper one with some real passion. This 'no evenings and weekends' is hardly passion talking.
Thanks a lot deusa for your reply.
Before I made this decision (out of defense mechanism). I had another prediction which is 38.6 to 54. I think if I didn't make the step to cut, I might have been comfortable with the situation as "second wife" indicated in 54 the marring maiden.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).