54,1,3 / 32

[SHONNA_D]

It's complicated... and I am so sad.
I asked if he is going to make a relationship with me again.
"54 changing lines 1,3, to hexagram 32"

'A lame man who is able to tread.' (He will take some steps...)
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She marries as a concubine.' (an inferior position. I get married as a concubine )

32

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Actually, I have lost my hopes. I don't see a beautiful relationship between us. Do you see any hope here?
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[diamanda]

Hi Shonna.

I'm afraid a 'beautiful relationship' is not possible right now. I certainly see hope, but it depends on the actions taken.

54.1.3 > 32
No it doesn't look like he will take any action.
There's another woman. So there's two of you...
Whoever of the two of you agrees, without grudges, to temporarily take a few lame steps towards the man, and to accept being a concubine, this is the woman he will decide to stay with in the end.

In 54, the bottom trigram represents the concubine, and the upper trigram the 'husband'. So here we have the concubine (lines 1 and 3 of the bottom trigram) acting. If you can do this and act as described above, then you two will eventually be a proper couple again. If the other woman does that, then she will eventually be in a 32 (long-lasting) position.

 

[SHONNA_D]

Oh what a shock! is there another woman ? I know that he is single and he is in a very difficult situation, so why we can't be together at the moment. But who knows... perhaps! I am sure there are women who want him.

What you have described is what I am doing towards him. I take a few hesitant steps towards him without grudges anymore. I try to accept the inferior position as I know it is very difficult to be together at the moment. I really feel so sad to be on that inferior position but I just keep my 'shocks' inside me. (I asked 2 months ago what should I do in order to have a relationship with him 51,4/24 this is what I do)

 

[diamanda]

What you have described is what I am doing towards him. I take a few hesitant steps towards him without grudges anymore. I try to accept the inferior position as I know it is very difficult to be together at the moment. I really feel so sad to be on that inferior position but I just keep my 'shocks' inside me. (I asked 2 months ago what should I do in order to have a relationship with him 51,4/24 this is what I do)

You're doing the best, keep going and fingers crossed!
Maybe the 'other woman' is metaphorical, maybe you're in an inferior position simply because he has other priorities (work?) right now.
For sure there is hope ahead, don't give up

 

[SHONNA_D]

Exactly diamanda, he has other priorities and I really know that I have to compromise and just waiting. His life is going to change very soon - A big step into the Unknown!

Thank you for your positive vibes!

 

[pbutture]

Exactly diamanda, he has other priorities and I really know that I have to compromise and just waiting. His life is going to change very soon - A big step into the Unknown!

Thank you for your positive vibes!

Shona, can you give us a feedback on your position? I got the same hexs when asking about my partner…