54.3..poor concubine me

[dragona]

Things are evolving veeery slowly and this perpetual state of hex 16 I find myself in is not my usual or wanted disposition....
What if I give up on X?(advice) hex 54.3 into 34...
6 at 3: The marrying maiden waits. Returns and marries as secondary wife.
All things come to the one who can wait. Who craves for something will take the first-best for granted, who stays in his own dignity will get the one with dignity.
(LiSe)
It literaly says I have to wait untill I become his lover,(I know i have to wait, but looks too lonely ) LiSe suggest quiet and dignified waiting, Bradford suggests questioning of motifes...this hex is too burdoned with different cultural meanings, I think..

 

[kenji b]

What would happen if you asked What does the universe need me to know about X?
and then post your answer?

 

[tifa]

Hi dragona,

Hex 54.3 suggets you should weigh the pros and cons. What is good and bad about spending the rest of your life with him? Are there things that you should talk to him about (to clear up any misunderstanding or assumption)?

the moving line does not scream out as a BIG NO, rather Yi has thrown the ball back to you. Perhaps you should meditate/ reflect on it.

Good luck
T

 

[Trojina]

Things are evolving veeery slowly and this perpetual state of hex 16 I find myself in is not my usual or wanted disposition....
What if I give up on X?(advice) hex 54.3 into 34...
6 at 3: The marrying maiden waits. Returns and marries as secondary wife.
All things come to the one who can wait. Who craves for something will take the first-best for granted, who stays in his own dignity will get the one with dignity.
(LiSe)
It literaly says I have to wait untill I become his lover,(I know i have to wait, but looks too lonely ) LiSe suggest quiet and dignified waiting, Bradford suggests questioning of motifes...this hex is too burdoned with different cultural meanings, I think..

I don't think it says that at all. Look at it. Even waiting shes only a secondary wife ! Do you really want that for a personal relationship ?

 

[dragona]

Hi and thank you all,
but I am not in a relationship per se. We are trying to mend our communications at the moment and I had a chrises.
My understanding of hex 54 is that it also can point to the unwanted difficulties and circumstances in life in which people (a couple) can find each other to be.
I think, actually know other things come before coupling for the time being and we get to know each other through the hard times.

Wawing pros and cons will happen in the future, I am sure of it tifa, but now we are being careful in communicating.
Yi pointed that his greatest problem about me is hex 60, Articulating: "In relationship readings, Hexagram 60 is still about setting ground rules: clarifying expectations, making sure you both mean the same thing by the same words, and simply that you understand one another. And once again, this is not optional: you can't assume the other person will just know these things if they're not put into words." (Hillary)

I have asked many questions on this point, surprisingly a lot, kenji and I find that Yi kinda waits sometimes for me to grasp readings one by one, if asked many. So still working on some of them.
I don`t really like to ask those "fatalist" questions, better advices along the way.
So asked: Taking in consideration last reading what are his attentions towards me and how he sees us in the future? Hex 19.1,5 into 29.
I find it to go along with hex 60 and emotional turmoil that is/was happening.
Do not know what future brings but I do feel a bond with this person and I want it to exist in my life for the time being, anyway.
But I do not hope for 54 forever, after all life is supposed to change as The Book Of Change is about.

 

[kenji b]

It's not meant to be fatalist. When I ask it I usually think that the Universe will try to point me to the best of all possible worlds. Yep I stole that one off of that dude that liked math and made that Infinitesimal calculus thingy.

You sound like you're having a hard time. I bring forth binary huggies.

Free hugs people.

 

[dragona]

Hello kenji,
meant that I don`t like to ask questions like "is this the man I am meant to be with", "what is the meaning of life", "what is my destiny" etc. these things are bound to have some of our own choices and decisions wowen in them and I don`t believe that one can just blindly go according to one`s (interpretation) of a Yi cast.
I tried to ask something of a choice and Yi pointed only to nearest problems concerning the subject. I think it is to be used as a tool to advise and clarify, like hightened intuition and whisdom of a sort, not to tell what one`s life will be in 10 years or something...what I have learned so far from it is that everything has its time and turn and we can only enhance our well being folloving the beat playing, clarified by a cast sometimes.
Or something like that.

Thanx for the binary huggies, my first of the kind:claps::claps:
:hugs:

 

[dragona]

And in an adition I asked
What or who is the reason for me being a Gui Mei in his life now? Hex 22.6 into 36
Above 9: White energy. Without fault.
Value announces itself plain. It is easier to find truth, love or peace where things are simple. Lots of decoration is usually a sign of little essence.LiSe
I read it as: It`s the reality of things, simplification is needed..put aside till....uch:?
But at least it is honesty there.