54>36 no contact

[goddessliss]

My closest friend hasn't contacted me for at least 10 days and previous to that I'd hardly seen or talked with her much at all for a number of weeks. This us very unusual. We're in contact at least every couple of days and hang out quite regularly.

Why hasn't my friend contacted me

54.2.3.4>36

I don't think it's answering my question rather just saying to be patient and I'll either hear from her again or move on to new friends.

 

[rosada]

Yes, it seems to be only describing your position. Could also be saying she wants some time out without there necessarily being a reason.

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks rosada.

 

[butterfly spider]

I had this for a reading on wether to buy a leather jacket in a charity shop for £30. I know it's a bit flippant - but I was thinking about it for a few hours and couldn't decide. I thought I would think on it..
I went back the following week and it had
Sold.

A few weeks later the same jacket was back on the rails and they had a sale - everything half price

I think it means not to rush to conclusions and wait all will be fine
Xx

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks butterfly spider - hope you got the jacket? Well actually it's also given me time to think about our friendship overall and it's not looking good from where I sit, not to say I wouldn't remain friends with her but the dynamics may change a bit.

 

[butterfly spider]

Yes - it's a vintage one - purple with studs ..
It's just that I thought I had lost buying the jacket but it came back -

 

[goddessliss]

At first I sorta thought she'd decided to move on but couldn't think of any reason why and last time we hung out everything was as normal. Who knows I'm all for giving people space but as I mentioned it's given me time to thi nk and pushed me to do other things I wouldn't normally do because of the comfort zone of old friends.

 

[goddessliss]

Too funny...she contacted me today, we had lunch, I said nothing about lack of contact. Everything was as per normal.

 

[Tim K]

I think she have been very busy with something, unable(54) to hang out with friends.
Having to(36) attend to some other matters.
Lines 2 3 4 form a trigram of Light changing into Water, maybe she have been 'swamped' with some chores, problems?


Had she told you something about the absence of contact?

 

[goddessliss]

I think she have been very busy with something, unable(54) to hang out with friends.
Having to(36) attend to some other matters.
Lines 2 3 4 form a trigram of Light changing into Water, maybe she have been 'swamped' with some chores, problems?


Had she told you something about the absence of contact?

Thanks ashteroid yes you're right. I found out she had a lot of assignments to do for her studies and she's looking for a place to do placement of 100 hours. Also she's been having trouble with a co worker. So totally swamped!

 

[butterfly spider]

Glad it is all OK
Like the purple leather vintage jacket - it came back (cheaper) and all is fine ....

I was going to ask the assistant in the shop why it had suddenly come back - but stopped myself asking. Perhaps it had been 'borrowed' by someone helping for a few weeks or someone had brought it for a specific outfit and had returned it. It didn't really matter. Like your friend - the reason she had made contact is actually not important (she sounded busy)
But the important thing is that you have met ...