54 to 5

[CheersC]

What will happen in love (& similar things) during next month?
54.3.4.5.6 to 5
Many lines,a lot of events. Line 3 The marrying maiden as a slave = forced subservience. Line 4 The marrying maiden draws out the allotted time = a late marriage comes in due course.
Line 5 Daughter given in marriage who’s gown was not as gorgeous as the serving maid = when the moon is nearly full good fortune.
Line 6 The woman holds the basket, but there are no fruits in it. The man stabs the sheep, but no blood flows. Nothing that acts to further.

Hex 5 Waiting: If you are sincere, you have light and success.

Viewing the bigger picture I would say initially I could hang out with someone whom i don't feel great sparks with. Then, a good encounter, but it goes standstill for a while, for some reason. 54 hex is not a big luck's prophecy, it slows things down,maybe for external issues, like money or career or traveling. Or the person might be involved with someone else. But the waiting hexagram n. 5 brings fortune

 

[moss elk]

Hi,

line 4 is the opportunity that presents itself,
and that you would be better off letting it pass you by.
line 6 is fruitless.

Overall, the reading says
The Marrying Maiden Waits.

 

[marybluesky]

Your situation will be less than ideal (54) and you'll wait (5) for better opportunities.

54.3: "Wilhelm/Baynes: The Marrying Maiden as a slave. She marries as a concubine." Maybe a not-single man approaches you?
54.4: "Wilhelm/Baynes: The Marrying Maiden draws out the allotted time. A late marriage comes in due course." You'll prefer to not go for it.
54.4: "Wilhelm/Baynes: The sovereign I gave his daughter in marriage. The embroidered garments of the princess were not as gorgeous as those of the serving maid. The moon that is nearly full brings good fortune." I can't say for sure- there are other women involved.
54.6: "Wilhelm/Baynes: The woman holds the basket, but there are no fruits in it. The man stabs the sheep, but no blood flows. Nothing that acts to further." An absurd connection.

 

[diamanda]

You'll have an affair with someone who is not single (no matter what he will tell you initially). It will be very short-lived, and you'll have to wait for a better opportunity.

 

[CheersC]

My attitude towards meeting new people is very undermined With the last virtual only experience I feel like I won't meet anyone who I feel not judged or teased with

 

[CheersC]

You'll have an affair with someone who is not single (no matter what he will tell you initially). It will be very short-lived, and you'll have to wait for a better opportunity.

im so lucky that it might be possible also...
plus yeah, I also thought about someone being already involved (the girl who gets married). A fruitless situation also...
I will give an update

 

[CheersC]

So far I just received a lot of looks and a french guy I bought some stuff from complimented me explicitly. Who knows if he is engaged or not. Then nothing else when i came back in my city.

 

[diamanda]

Still time till the 31st of the month

 

[CheersC]

Feedback : I had the plan to see a guy, I finally saw him but he didn't try to chase me because I had seen his coworker before who was making the court to me, and who's actually going too fast.
We shared contacts anyways but I don't feel a strong chemistry and sexual passion. I will ask what to do

 

[CheersC]

2nd feedback: a guy appeared again after months and he wants to see me in a group of friends... i said ok but we probably wont see eachother. Today he wrote something mean, just because in his mind he thinks this works to get my attention... and that upsets me. He may be the not-so-great opportunity

 

[CheersC]

He suddenly wants to see me also tomorrow. He has had a lot more sex and fun than me but feels abstinence and can't wait. If he had to wait ten years like me, he would have had suicide in his early 20s. Lucky him to find a prey to satisfy his desires so easily. I wished i was this "brave".
Hmm, I may not accept, he wasn't even able to kiss when we met months ago, he ignored me for a cheap one this September, and I am not craving to ask him to give me a ride by car. Too much insistence, i hate when boys act like glue octopus. I will let him to stupid ppl and maybe regret it later but at least i won't have to lose another jewelry piece and spend a lot of money on calling a taxi for him. Lol.

 

[CheersC]

He answered he would have offered me but i dont believe it.
I sent him to hell (metaphorically speaking!) and blocked his messages. I'm making him more fun to be around lol

 

[diamanda]

Today he wrote something mean

Prince Charming... not.

but feels abstinence and can't wait

Oh the poor soul

I will let him to stupid ppl and maybe regret it later but at least i won't have to lose another jewelry piece and spend a lot of money on calling a taxi for him. Lol.

I can guarantee you you won't regret it, and also people often get STDs when having sex with such promiscuous types. Let him hang out with other promiscuous types. This month indeed doesn't look that great for your love life. I hope life is good to you otherwise!

 

[CheersC]

Prince Charming... not.

Oh the poor soul

I can guarantee you you won't regret it, and also people often get STDs when having sex with such promiscuous types. Let him hang out with other promiscuous types. This month indeed doesn't look that great for your love life. I hope life is good to you otherwise!

this is a person from the past... friend of friends... I have been asking about him one year ago... I think he is so fake that he believes his own lies now XD
Yep, my month, as all the months, is unsatisfactory. I can't be less picky though.
About the 2 foreign guys: i'd have fancied one of them,or them both, if the second one didn't fancy me first (perhaps I make up too many problems, I should learn from the guy above!!!! XD). About the insistence of his looks and attentions (he was observing me at distance and I could barely come closer to the other one), this might be teaching me to be a little bit more ''cheeky'' or outgoing, open, but putting the boundaries (thing I'm not always likely to do XD). For example...he was good but I couldn't tell him anything that he was so stubborn... I saw him twice and he behaved like if he was my sibling and he treated my aunt that way too XD like...lacking of authority XD
This never happened to me before ahah

 

[CheersC]

still 6 days to the end of this month. I'm sick of waiting , and then nothing good comes XD

 

[diamanda]

I know how you feel. Still, it's way better to wait and nothing good comes, than to wait for something good and then something bad comes.

 

[CheersC]

I know how you feel. Still, it's way better to wait and nothing good comes, than to wait for something good and then something bad comes.

my friends and even acquaintances all say he likes me a lot otherwise he wouldn't have come back and he wouldn't have been prone to offer me something (well, if i didnt say that, he wouldnt have done it,especially if I didnt make out XD). well for sure he likes me, like many guys did, and do...but in the end if I don't have sex they lose me to go with someone cheap and have it...that sucks, how can men and the women they look for act so cheap??
By the way... There is something urgent to say: a person who knows him well is planning to make a gathering in a few days...
If this guy finds a cheap one he won't even come...if he doesn't he will come to meet me because he knows I come...when he feels needy he asks XD

I will ask about november's overall love situation in a new thread and then update it.

 

[diamanda]

my friends and even acquaintances all say he likes me a lot otherwise he wouldn't have come back

If he liked you "a lot", he would have been nice to you. He would have tried to get to know you better. He would have asked you on a date. It looks like he only wants sex, from you, from everybody - so this guy doesn't look capable of liking anybody a lot!

 

[CheersC]

If he liked you "a lot", he would have been nice to you. He would have tried to get to know you better. He would have asked you on a date. It looks like he only wants sex, from you, from everybody - so this guy doesn't look capable of liking anybody a lot!

I agree on the nice part.
bah... lately news are: he deleted me from friends, all of a sudden. Also this one is quite unstable, I'd say. I won't chase after him... I didn't want to cut him totally out though, but just giving him a lesson.
Until now he's the only hot one I felt some sparks with.
Let's see what else will happen, because a friend of mine said her friend is gonna invite him at a graduation's party, but he may not come (I think he won't...but it is possible, and perhaps also with someone)

 

[CheersC]

late feedback: i accepted the request of the foreign guy... even if the singular casting for him and his bro were saying i should have done a total withdrawal