55,1,3,6 > 35

[usilser]

I need your precious help.
My question was: What should I do so as to find a man to make a family with. The answer looks like a story to me: 55,1,3,6 >35
A temporary relationship (55,1) and the couple separates (55,3) then there is loneliness for a long period of time (55,6) and there is progress hexagram 35.

The answer seems to show a picture of my next relationship or a picture of a past love that we have breakup twice and I am single for a long time. I don't want any progress with my past love. So, perhaps the future shows me one more relationship that will be short, I will be single for a long time and perhaps after that will come a partner that I can make a family with him.

Any help please with the advice from Iching?

 

[rosada]

55 is about something reaching its climax and then a person moves on. So I think this could refer to your past relationship and 35 is saying it’s good for you to leave that behind and go forward with your own life. Is there something you feel you should be doing other than family? Like maybe you always wanted to go to Spain or you’ve vowed to lose ten pounds. Maybe you should be pursuing that interest and that will led to meeting a partner.