56.1.3.5-25 love

[Lodestar]

I asked why haven't I met my life partner/soul mate?
I got 56.1.3.5-25. But not much on the forums for this.

Dear Yi, please comment on my energy/development..
How am I now, in relation to attracting what I seek?

2 unchanging
Oh good, I think that's good...!?!
(I certainly used to be a long way away from it & Ive changed a great deal over recent years.)

I'm so tired out and depressed at meeting married men, how can they live with themselves? such arrogance, so little love. I used to think I was 'attracting' them (well the truth is I'm not managing to attract what I DO want), but speaking to other women, it's not just me having this experience. I now have a detailed list of questions I ask, as soon as a guy starts coming on to me, are you married? Are you in a relationship? Recently met a guy who sailed through all those questions to only later admit he was having an affair with a friends wife, seems I'll have to add that to my list

 

[LittleMissSunshine]

I can relate. The dating world is a very ugly place; there's no denying it. I also attract a lot of undesirables, but I think this is a perspective problem: Married people looking to cheat go after whoever they find attractive, simply because they have the confidence to do so. It's a win-win for them: If they get rejected, at least they're going home to someone. If they get accepted, then they get what they want after all. This also explains why many single men will not approach women - they are afraid of rejection.

56 is the Wanderer. I've gotten that one many times before. I'm no expert on the Yi but I can give you my thoughts. Sometimes the hexagrams turn out to be literal. In this case, as a Wanderer or Traveler, you are on a journey. (Sometimes, this hexagram came up when a person has left my life, or when I have sent them away.) You have to complete that journey now; that is the immediate answer for why you haven't met a life partner.

25 is a hexagram I am confused about; I'll let someone else handle that one.

Good luck to us both.

 

[juaneros]

Hex 25 can probably be the advice to take. I sometimes think that with love when you least expected it's when it happens, and I kind of think about that with this hexagram. Other interpretations can be to be natural, be yourself, you don't have to be someone you are not for anyone. Let things occur naturally, don't force it. Anyhow, good luck with it! And I agree with LittleMissSunshine about 56

 

[Lodestar]

Hi littlemisssunshine, always helps to know we are not alone!! Thankyou Juaneros.
Yes I'm definitely on a journey..I have by any standards travelled a long and winding road! But I always did hope for a life of adventure as a kid

.1 I have wasted energy, got side tracked by people that were not suitable
.3 I've moved on many times, felt the fear and did it anyway (Lise - burning the camp)
.5 I finally started to stand up for myself, show my metal, people are starting to realise my true strength and nature?

25 Lise - 'make the body and soul safeproof. Connect your soul to heaven and nature..do not stay on the common road where everything is mediocre'. ( this is everything really -on many levels I have tolerated mediocrity - on the most simple level- for me all these married men, no matter how successful/accomplished they are, are in fact being mediocre in how they are spending their one precious life in terms of love..)