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56.3.5>16 and intentions.

spica

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Hello,

Could you help me understand references to a traveller please?
There was this betraying friend of mine who secretly wanted the man I was seeing. I broke it off with her on a low note, but apparently she is still at it, or so I think.

I asked, what are her (romantic) intentions towards this guy? I got 56.3.5>16.
So it references a traveller. Does it mean she is too busy to target him anymore? Fyi, I think she is also currently travelling or has travelled somewhere by plane. Wondering if there is some significance. Also, she is not in the same country as him, as per 56.5.

56.3 speaks of some really bad beahaviour. How does it run in the context of a 1-to-1 intention?

thank you.:bows:
 

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I asked, what are her (romantic) intentions towards this guy? I got 56.3.5>16.

Line 56.3 indicates that she does have an interest in him but nothing will come of it due to her distasteful attitude and underhanded behaviour.

Line 56.5 This suggests that her conniving knows no bounds and will try and assimilate herself into some other group where she is living.

Hex 16 To gain the attention of "your" man she will need external help, so there is a possibility that she will give the affair another try sometime later.
 

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Hi willowfox,

I need some more help with the cryptic hexagrams. Before I interpret it my way, which is further confusing me, I would like your thoughts.

I asked, how does the guy feel about the betraying friend romantically?
53.1.5>22

If I interpret it, it will sound skewish. Maybe he likes her? Or does hexagram 53.5 refer to my and his relationship? pls help

"The summit is a high place. In a high position one easily becomes isolated.
One is misjudged by the very person on whom one is dependent-the woman
by her husband, the official by his superior. This is the work of deceitful
persons who have wormed their way in. The result is that relationships
remain sterile, and nothing is accomplished. But in the course of further
development, such misunderstandings are cleared away, and reconciliation is
achieved after all."


I'm not sure what the reference to 53.5 is referring to, to her and him or him and me.

I wanted a straightforward honest POV, so I asked, is she still a threat to me and him?
I ching answered, 25.5>21.

"An unexpected evil may come accidentally from without. If it does not
originate in one's own nature or have a foothold there, one should not resort
to external means to eradicate it, but should quietly let nature take its course.
Then improvement will come of itself."


Wow, the answer here surprised me. It says I should do nothing and the evil (her) will cure of itself. Am I correct? But what does 21 mean? Justice will be administered?

I asked, will he punish her if he finds out wht she did?
44.4>57

"Insignificant people must be tolerated in order to keep them well disposed.
Then we can make use of them if we should need them. If we become
alienated from them and do not meet them halfway, they turn their backs on
us and are not at our disposal when we need them. But this is our own fault."


She will be tolerated?

Thank you for your kind help :bows:
 

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I asked, how does the guy feel about the betraying friend romantically?
53.1.5>22


Line 53.1 indicates your friend is not interested in her, he knows what she is upto though, and line 53.5 again suggests no activity.

I'm not sure what the reference to 53.5 is referring to, to her and him or him and me. Remember you asked about him and her.

I wanted a straightforward honest POV, so I asked, is she still a threat to me and him? 25.5>21.

Line 25.5 is about her, it calls her an unexpected evil, and thus advises you to take no notice of her, as she will die away in due course.



Am I correct? But what does 21 mean? Justice will be administered? She will get her just desserts oneday from some other source.

I asked, will he punish her if he finds out what she did? 44.4>57

No he won't do anything.
 

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