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Good afternoon/morning/evening etc. wherever you are and whatever time of day it is.

Following previous threads no progress or anything happening with my musicican friend - well I wish he was mine - but that's just not a happening thing so I asked -


What do I need to do to bring a new positive relationship into my life

Hexagram 56.5>33

Does this mean I need to travel to a retreat?


PS Irrelevant to this question - I am studying sign language so I am wondering what hexagram/s represent deafness. thku and blessings
Melissa x
 
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My take on it would be: withdraw from your concern over this one you've been pining for. Maybe take some time alone. Browse around, pursue your interests and curiosities - you may find something you weren't even expecting.
 
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Thks jfas - thought that was the case but was hoping I was reading it totally wrong.

Problem is except for a very short, intense, messy relationship some months back I haven't been in a healthy connected relationship for over two years. (and before that really).
I have pursued my interests, made many new friends, continued to sort out my issues and some...but still the Yi doesn't lie so I guess I will just keep going.....I am so sick of it all.
 
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The sixth trigram water
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rules the ear.

My medical book does not give a hexagram for deafness per se, but does say that 28.4 gives ear problems (I am not sure why). 29 generally gives ear problems, and I assume that it is 29 that makes someone deaf (double ear problems probably means deafness). 48 (water in the well or wood) gives ear infections.

As for the question: 56 is just bad for any kind of love affair, and it says that you have to settle down and restrain yourself until you are ready for such an event. The 33 is not just bad for love, but while you are looking at this man, you may have another in mind as well. 33 is truly declining fortunes. If you want to bring love into your life, you have to discipline your passions. If you travel, you will have trouble. The Yi finds journeying to be a very precarious thing to do. In other words, it is all about moderation and discipline to cure the floating and drifting of your life. You also must be exceptionally careful about what you say (33), as you will find yourself in trouble if you don't hold your tongue.

Melissa, stop worrying about your love life. It will take care of itself.
 
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Thku icastes for all your interpretation of 56 and also the information about deafness hexagrams.

'Melissa, stop worrying about your love life. It will take care of itself.' I know icastes, but a good kick up the b.. from someone like you is always good. cheers Liss x
 
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'The 33 is not just bad for love, but while you are looking at this man, you may have another in mind as well. '
When I read this sentence I cldn't think of this other man of which you speak but I thought, 'icastes has always been right about these things so I will just wait and see'. So a couple of hours later(now) it hits me - he reminds of a man I loved for 25 years but we both married others, I finally let go of that about 5 years ago and he really holds absolute no interest in my heart or otherwise, but yes there are similarities there and in the bigger picture I am glad I did not marry him. xx
 

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those loves are for the next lifetime!

Musician and past loves aside in terms of what you can do to bring a positive relationship into your life the reading is also saying go out and about doing things for the community and people that show your talents, but mind your manners and stay self suffcient. I'm sort of paraphrasing here so I'll just quote bradford hatcher (again) to be clearer.

56.5
Knowing the worth of a good introduction, he shoots a pheasant to give to the local land's lord. While he has lost a much-valued arrow, he has gained a fine introduction and, if he wants it, both praise and office.

Do your thing, and you'll attract someone who is drawn to you because of your unique skills and gifts.

If I were a man I'd chase after you Liss! Icastes has got it though, stop worrying and it will take care of itself. (When you figure out how to do this let me know ;))
 
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Hey chingching - I was in hysterics when u said u wld chase after me - aw so cute thks, nice to know someone would.
Got me thinking though. I started sign language classes last night as I want to teach deaf children songs and the bit about minding my manners - well it is a whole other language and learning new etiqtuitte etc. so I'm thinking I will have to be careful not to offend. It is a very big deaf community where I am learning. But then it could be something else as I do lots of different things in my life. thks for making me laugh chingching xx
 

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Hi Melissa,

My thought in the reading goes with those who suggest retreating from the situation (Hex 33). In fact (and as others have suggested), 56 points to being the wanderer; being not attached, but passing through, as this (the relationship) is not home.

Line 5 in Hex 56 points to a direction other than a love relationship. Of pinpointing a direction, attracting a circle of friends in which you might make a real difference. I think that teaching anyone to sing makes an amazing difference!

Best wishes!
 

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...but still the Yi doesn't lie so I guess I will just keep going.....I am so sick of it all.

Can relate. The only thing I would add to all this is that it's OK to be sick of it all. Maybe just be sick of it all for a while. I think that's what 33 often comes from.
 
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Thankyou nahema and jfas for your extra thought - that is perfect - the more replies I am getting the clearer it is becoming and the clearer it is becoming the stronger I feel to keep on keeping on. blessings xx
 

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