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[scorpioontherun]

is it really over between me and X?
He dumped me 3 days ago .. not being able to sleep nor eat. But I do not know why I have the feeling that it is not over just yet. In a certain way I would like to be (it will mean a closure) but it's not a hope it's a feeling.
What do you say?
thanks
Scorpio

 

[pocossin]

Breaking up is a terrible Christmas present, but, still, it's Christmas and you can't eat? Sociability (58) could help you lay the ghost (63). Go out with friends or talk to the neighbors.

 

[elias]

Very sad news in a season that tends to be stressful anyway...

By my reckoning the middle (yin-to-yang) rules: "It is important not to spend time lamenting our mistakes, but to accept the situation and move on. ... We should remain free from envy, of dependence on others, of desire for position, and of the lure to be recognized and understood. It is important not to recognize things that are not in intrinsically valuable. True joy springs from guarding the sanctity of our inner being, and from retaining our inner freedom" (Anthony)

63 "On reconsidering, and other unbalancing thoughts..."

Only time will tell whether or not there will be a reconciliation. Hoping, when you're the one who wants things to continue, is a normal response. The cruel logic of relationships is that the person with the least attachment is in control.

The grieving process can be lengthy for scorpios. Hold to your own integrity, work thru and honor the changes, know that you will be better, stronger, smarter for the experience.

b*b