58.3 < 32

[ambika]

Can anyone please help me with this?

Question: should i leave X for good and get married to somebody else?
Reading: 58.3 < 32

would really appreciate help!

 

[elias]

As is often repeated here... if you want a yes-no answer, flip a coin...

Consider recasting your query with something like "What would be the consequence of leaving X?"

That being said, 58.3 suggests you're dealing with, or are yourself being, quite superficial. "Coming for delight is inauspicious. ... If one has no inner substance, but vainly desires to act outwardly as if one did, thereby coming on to people to get their pleasure, this is sure to put relationships into disarray. This is why good people dislike the crafty" (Buddhist I Ching, trans Cleary).

The resultant 32-Constancy, speaks to holding your course. This is not a to be construed as "stay in the relationship at all costs," but rather to find your own center and act from what you know to be true and correct in this situation.

 

[ambika]

As is often repeated here... if you want a yes-no answer, flip a coin...

Consider recasting your query with something like "What would be the consequence of leaving X?"

That being said, 58.3 suggests you're dealing with, or are yourself being, quite superficial. "Coming for delight is inauspicious. ... If one has no inner substance, but vainly desires to act outwardly as if one did, thereby coming on to people to get their pleasure, this is sure to put relationships into disarray. This is why good people dislike the crafty" (Buddhist I Ching, trans Cleary).

The resultant 32-Constancy, speaks to holding your course. This is not a to be construed as "stay in the relationship at all costs," but rather to find your own center and act from what you know to be true and correct in this situation.

i recasted like you said and the answer is 6.1 < 58.

so does that mean that this relationship is full of issues that need to be resolved and a compromise is a must and i shud immediately resolve them. I shud seek advice in this regard.

58 seems like joy companionship

so what say you?