59.6 : How should i proceed

[Shannie]

Hi all,

I feel troubled with matters of the heart, in these months i find that my feeling comes and goes easily. As a result I've made the people around me suffer due to my fickleness, on the other hand i don't wish to hurt anyone also and still wish to maintain the friendship. I feel exhausted thinking about how to handle all these stuffs.

I asked a question on what is the best approach to handle all these stuffs, the answer is 1.2.3.5 to 21. Biting my way through?

Additionally because I am unsure why am I behaving like this ever since I've gotten my freedom (broke up with ex), I also asked the question on why am i being so fickle-minded and the answer given is 37.1 to 53.

Looking forward to hear from anyone here.

Thanks in advance.
Shan

 

[iams girl]

Hi Shannie,

Your life sounds a little overwhelming!

1.2.3.5>21 You've got a lot on your plate (1.3) and getting advice (1.2.5), possibly counseling (21) would be helpful.

37.1>53 I'd say because a balanced life takes work over time (53) and will need to come from a sense of belonging, order, and being accountable for your actions (37.1).

Best regards

 

[Shannie]

Hi thanks iams girl for taking the time to reply!
Yes this year has been a very happening year for me.
Getting counselling would be hard i guess, the advice i was given is that i should lie low in terms of relationship this year if not it will bring trouble, and indeed my troubles this year mostly revolve around relationships.

The second one I still don't really understand though linking with my question. :bag:

Shan.

 

[iams girl]

It's good you have someone who can give you good advice then. Hopefully, related to hex 21, they will be able to help you bite through to the truth of things and maybe even the reason why things keep happening the way they do.

The second one, hex 37, The Family, is about order, structure, discipline, and knowing one's role. I think the answer suggests your fickle-mindedness (maybe just uncertainty about things) could possibly come from a need for more focus on your personal life such as daily self-care routines, good friends and community relationships, setting and accomplishing goals, and a career or creative endeavor where you feel appreciated. Hex 53, Development (Gradual Progress), relates to the step by step process of coming together in the courting and marriage process. There's a certain order to things that is important and, like a garden; there's a time to plan, plant, grow, and harvest. I think it suggests these things will take time, but will work out well in the end.

 

[Shannie]

Oh now i have a clearer idea on what the hexagram is about, thanks for taking the time to interpret!

Shan.