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6.6 -The psycho will never go away will she?!
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Take heart though. She may be unwilling to give up her nagging desire for what she wants from your husband, but even if she finally gets some kind of minor satisfaction, it's not going to last . there is no water in the lake for her, and she'll give up, exhausted by her own efforts.
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Has your husband upset this person in the past somehow because the line suggests that she will not stop her attacks.
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6.6 says that even if you win or gain something, you'll lose it again. Which describes your situation to a 't', right? You thought you were rid of her, but now she's back like a bad penny.
Look, this stuff in life which keeps coming back to haunt you will continue to come back to haunt you until you open your eyes, give it the attention and time it's demanding, listen to it, and respond appropriately. I'm not saying necessarily that you should invite her over for coffee and say 'so what's on your mind?' I'm saying that this situation needs more attention, more awareness, and more insight. Cuz right now, there's an unknown, possibly unconscious dynamic that's driving her into your life. Find out what that dynamic is, shine the bright lights on it, and the dynamic will either disappear or weaken to the point where it's avoidable.
Oh, and by the way - the course of action I've outlined is neither fun nor easy. But in the long run, it's preferable to putting up with the present situation.
Look, this stuff in life which keeps coming back to haunt you will continue to come back to haunt you until you open your eyes, give it the attention and time it's demanding, listen to it, and respond appropriately. I'm not saying necessarily that you should invite her over for coffee and say 'so what's on your mind?' I'm saying that this situation needs more attention, more awareness, and more insight. Cuz right now, there's an unknown, possibly unconscious dynamic that's driving her into your life. Find out what that dynamic is, shine the bright lights on it, and the dynamic will either disappear or weaken to the point where it's avoidable.
Oh, and by the way - the course of action I've outlined is neither fun nor easy. But in the long run, it's preferable to putting up with the present situation.
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I was thinking earlier that
6 is a inner conflict
while
7 is an external conflict.
6 is a inner conflict
while
7 is an external conflict.
Ifthe resulting hex is exhaustion, would that maybe mean that she wants to cause exhaustion to him? (becaseu i asked what she wants with him)
he has upset her thats for sure. She feels abandoned by him because they used to be close before i dated him. He pursued her for a few years at that point.
He has told ehr may times since that they just simply cannot have any kind of relationshoip anymore becaseu of him being with me now.
I dont believe she will ever stop
I actually have another thread here where i talk about it some more (wish i could ve just merged the threads) Its about how i just about ate an old gross piece of meat the other day that still had the bullet in it
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?p=75138&posted=1#post75138