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A guy and I have a bit of chemistry between us and enjoy each others company a lot but neither of us is committing to getting things to move forward. I'm moving away for work anyway but hopefully we'll remain friends if nothing else....

What is the potential for our relationship
60.2.5>24

Limitations see me return to self....that sounds pretty apt seeing I'm moving away.

I am firstly going to see family for a week, coming back here and then leaving for the job for good (supposedly)

I wonder if it also could mean on my return fromvisiting family we go out of the courtyard together line 2 and sweet measures line 5 we enjoy the sweetness of each other in the limited time we have before I leave.
 
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It's been almost a week since I did this reading and I feel the limitations Hex 60 did give me a chance to Return to self Hex 24 though I'm unsure about the lines themselves.

I decided to do another reading as I've not seen nor communicated with him in anyway since last Sunday.

What is the potential this relationship has run its course

3.5>24

Hmmm interesting looks to me like line 5 suggests completion can't be brought just yet. I wonder why?

Yes we've had difficulties from the beginning and again the Returning hex 24.....

I definitely feel for myself things have gone full circle in my heart about this guy and I don't envision he wants to take things any further, but I guess anythings possible.
 
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Hi, I think 3.5 means that it's good fortune when things start small. From a small seed, great things sprout. If things happen rapidly, there is misfortune because the big energy will fizzle.
Line 5 comment: Sprouting fresh and thick: For the small, a sign of fortune. For the great, a sign of
misfortune.
Hex 3 , as I see it, talks legitimately about beginnings that need to be nurtured, like a seed, with the help of various support systems.
24 indicates that the relationship can open up for you.

Your first reading, with hexagram 60, suggests to me -- since you'll be leaving that the "limits" in place may have to do with tangible things, like clarity around how to see each other (if you're living at a distance). How can you develop a relationship, given such geographical limitations or boundaries?
(Btw: where are you going for work? )
 
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Thanks loverofknowledge.....mainly the difficulties Hex 3 has been that he can't see a way around the Limitations of Hex 60 and perhaps he keeps Returning Hex 24 to the same place in his mind. I suggested he just come with me because there's plenty of work where I'm headed for both us and let's just see what happens between us in terms of relations but he just seems to keep putting obstacles in the way so it just can't happen....neither of is interested in a long distance relationship so I've said either come with me or don't and I'm happy to stay friends but he's just cut all communication with me.
It's been upsetting because it's one of those 'connections' that doesn't happen very often, for me this is only the second time this has happened in my life so it would be a shame if he bails on it but I've got my plan for the next 5 years and after everything I've done to get where I am and where I'm headed I'm not stopping now.

I'm heading out to Central Queensland inland.
 
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Hi, what happened career-wise? it sounds fantastic but I'm out of the loop.
I have the impression: maybe he's scared and uncertain -- since it's a big move (isn't it? ) to leave everything and come with you? Are you sure he has cut off communication? Or is he just retreating temporarily?
Give it time. Time may dissolve the problems. I don't know. That's just my sense of it.
 
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Hi, I'm going to start another thread as there is a bit more to his-story and trying to work out what I want to do about it (or not) to bring us together....I believe you are very right about his fear and uncertainties. He asked if I'd renig on the job and stay and see what happens but I'm not prepared to let go of my ambitions, bad timing or what? I don't know.

Mid year I had a bad experience as a school of the air teacher in the wilderness of WA but I've decided to not let that sway me from following my dreams.....so I'm studying School age education and care via correspondence and now heading to central queensland to teach school of the air again. I put everything in storage, gave my piano away (which is how I met this present man) and plan to be on a working holiday buying a camper van as soon as I can afford it so I've a home away from home. This is a 5 year plan.
 
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That's fantastic! You sound empowered, motivated, and directed.
I wonder if 60 -- which is often about negotiation of boundaries and contracts -- is asking you to negotiate a middle way with him. Could you do some long-distance communication on a trial basis -- with visits to each other in between -- or is that out of the question? It seems to me that It's a lot to ask somebody to get up and leave to move into central queensland -- no matter how much he likes you.
 
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I am empowered etc. excited and lots of emotions about this plan. About time I had one. I'm feeling awesome about my life overall.
Yes you're right we can do some long-distance communication - I think that could well suit where he's at, at the moment. I was hoping he'd come up over the Summer break as I'm planning to camp up and down the coast for a few weeks and I can imagine it would be a much needed holiday for him, if nothing else. I suggested he come with me as I wasn't going to not go for this job and I didn't really expect he'd come but I wanted him to know I was open to it if he wanted to. I really hope he leaves the communication lines open for us for his own sake even if it turns out not to be anything more.
 
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I'm excited to hear your news. I remember the fiasco that went down during your last adventure -- but also the growth that occurred. I recall that it was an opening for you, despite the hardships.
Your plan with this man sounds good too. Maybe he can visit for Summer break. And you will develop a relationship over time.
 
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I start this job on Tuesday after traveling close to 2000kms by car to get here. I never heard from him again so I'm assuming that's the end of that.
 

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