60.2.5 and 51 unchanging

[sartoris]

Hello Yi friends,

Ok, been out of a long relationship for around 3 months. Time to move on.

Met a new person - really interesting. We've met once, been texting each other for some time.

I asked the Yi, what's happening between us two?
Got 60.2.5 > 24 - Limitation! Uh-oh. My interpretation: get out, not for you, not happening.

Then I asked the Yi, what's happening in my love life?
Boom, got 51 unchanging - Shock! Now that's confusing. Is the Yi saying I'm still under the influence of my divorce? Am I still in shock from what happened?

As always, any comments are welcome!

Cheers :bows:

 

[ginnie]

Hexagram 60 suggests a rather measured way of relating, as if asking oneself "How much should I get involved?"

Regarding the 51, I would take it as something that gets you going, arouses you, and maybe even alarms you a little. If you were not still under the shock from your divorce you wouldn't be human!

 

[sartoris]

Thank you, ginnie! You're always helpful

So, when you see the hexagram 60, you are not considering the relating hexagram (24)? When I saw the hexagram 24, I already took it as "return to yourself, don't look at it".

I still don't understand the hexagram 51 in my situation, although I can see what you mean. Maybe all the people I'm getting to know now are really "getting me going", but... is that it?

Thanks! :bows:

 

[altair139]

51 in love reading is about the sincerity of your feeling. Right now your feeling is not sincere to any of them (in a sense, not passionate enough for a relationship).
sometimes this hex comes out to tell you that you're asking inappropriate questions.

 

[ginnie]

I already took it as "return to yourself, don't look at it".

I take it more as: "Rest. Don't ask any more questions on this subject right now."

Maybe all the people I'm getting to know now are really "getting me going", but... is that it?

That sounds like it.

 

[sartoris]

Thank you altair and ginnie for your kind responses!
I'm finally understanding the messages the Yi is giving me.

Cheers! :bows: