60.4.5 to 54 why am I in this (wrong) situation?

[mariella]

Hi and thanks to all for being here. I was asking I Ching the real reason of my situation. I am quite alone, even if once I was criticised for being too social, I do not have a proper work, my children do not stay with me, my life is no good at all. And the answer was 60.4.5 to 54. I wonder if the problem is to understand that I am asking too much, life is more at a low level and I must be a married maiden and not a first one. So I wonder if this means to lower any kind of standards , do not ask for special or interesting things, and be without a proper work and alone happy. Please let me know what you think about that. Thank you.

 

[diamanda]

Hi mariella,

why am I in this (wrong) situation? 60.4.5 > 54

You are asking what has caused this situation you're in, not what to do about it from now on.
I think you should find a few goals and ask more questions specifically about them, for the future.
For example, "what can I do, next month, to get proper work?".

So, what has caused your current situation:
You were at peace with any limitations in your life, because they were prosperous for you (60.4)
You limited sweet things in your life, you were active, lucky, and gained esteem (60.5).
However, this path brought you to a 54 position, a position of "second best".

Choosing the easiest path is actually a very successful survival technique, hence 'prosperous' and 'lucky'.
But since you're obviously not happy with things as they stand, considering to change attitude is a good idea.
My advice would be try to target and ask about one thing at a time, to see if and how you can improve each of the situations you mentioned.

 

[mariella]

Thank you a lot diamanda. Yes my life was very prosperous for me and I was active and gained esteem. and is no more at all that way now. I will follow your valuable advice and ask specific things for the future!

 

[mariella]

mmm diamanda... I've ask the question you proposed me...and the answer was 5 waiting...It's 5 years I am waiting... Then I asked what can I do, next month, to get friends? and the answer was 47 confined. Same meaning, same feeling! Seems I have to be in that situation for along and that brings me again to wonder why and what I did so wrong. I am afraid that's too much for me!

 

[diamanda]

5 means waiting, but it also contains some more specific advice: "if you are sincere you have light and success", lucky to persevere, it futhers to cross great water. Eating and drinking cheerfully is also mentioned. 5 shows you need something (in this case work). Of course you'll need to continue to seek work - while waiting, be sincere and active in searching. It does sound that you can do something about it ("cross great water"). Maybe something good will start in November, then you'll have to wait for the work to start a bit later? It's not a very bad answer.

As about friends, and 47, hmm.. yep... not a good answer at all. So ok, for next month the issue 'friends' seems to be dried out. Work doesn't sound too bad. Keep asking, per month. There's got to be something in any given month that can prove good for you! And even if not there's the next month - the stars do change all the time! I was reading earlier on today that the general astro-climate will be way better than now from late Saturday onwards.

 

[diamanda]

that brings me again to wonder why and what I did so wrong

Bad things happen to good people very often. Life is unfair.
Please don't torment yourself by placing all blame on you - there is such a thing as bad luck.