61.1.4.5.6 > 40

[soma]

hello,

i asked yi a question about my current housing crisis. i basically made a big move and am trying to find an affordable home and a job and am struggling. i've been staying with friends but mainly with my new boyfriend but am getting paranoid about being dependent on him and about my having nowhere else to go. i really like being with him and am happy in his flat and i think he likes having me around too. i would like to stay with him until i find work, so i can relax a bit and focus on jobs and not spend all my limited savings on paying full rent not knowing when the next income will be, but i don't know if he wants this. i asked yi today what i should do to resolve this feeling of disquiet.

i read the answer as encouraging me to go alone and not rely on anyone else. and that if i do this then the crisis will pass.
would you agree? how do you interpret this?

thanks

 

[soma]

anyone?

 

[willowfox]

i asked yi today what i should do to resolve this feeling of disquiet.

I know how you feel. Anyway, if you feel bad about the situation then by all means talk to your bf and other friends, tell them, be honest with them that you do not like being a burden or imposing on their good nature, a little honesty and a big dollop of sincerity will go along way to help your cause. Perhaps even enlisting their help to look out for a new place for you.

When you have talked openly about your concerns then you will feel a lot better about your current circumstances.

 

[tigerintheboat]

Inner Truth

i asked yi today what i should do to resolve this feeling of disquiet.
H61.1.4.5.6 > H40
i read the answer as encouraging me to go alone and not rely on anyone else. and that if i do this then the crisis will pass.
would you agree? how do you interpret this?

thanks

It looks to me like Yi is voting against being dependent on the boyfriend.

From the WikiWing on Line 1: "The basic idea: something offers you protection and guidance, and maybe foresight. But you will not be able to enjoy the benefits of this, will have no peace, if there is ‘another’ – which could be outgoing projects, ulterior motives, or other people involved who don’t belong. Being distracted by other people’s influence."

Line 4 is about a relationship ending (a team horse running away)...Line 6 is another "pitfall" line, while Line 5 is about a relationship where you are bound together with truth and confidence. These may be later stages, but for now, it is best you remain independent and not settle into false security.

You can only see a few steps down the road with these things, so take it slow. Follow your inner guide...you wouldn't have asked this question if you didn't have doubts, so respect your own feelings.

Tiger