61.2.5-An old problem

[steve]

I had a break up a while back, of which I am pretty much over and am making plans with a new girl.
This old gf still plays on my mind although I am not IN love I do care I guess there are some unresolved issues. Its always this feeling like something is not right
I had some pretty amazing answers a few days when I asked regarding the same girl, My mind is less clouded now then we first broke up, I felt like asking
I was just wondering what the chances of her getting in touch are because i doubt very much it would be me to make contact.

I just cant to seem to read anything clearly when I ask about my own realtionships

Steve

 

[Tony_L]

I had a break up a while back,...
I was just wondering what the chances of her getting in touch are because i doubt very much it would be me to make contact.
Steve

61.2.5 > 27
Inner Truth > Nourishing
Perhaps the decision not to make contact with her represents your effort to nourish yourself and to be in accord with your inner truth.

61.2 A crane calling in the shade. Its young answers it.
I have a good goblet. I will share it with you.

61.2 is an image of a mother calling its young. Maybe your former GF will be feeling maternal toward you and will give a call to get together over drinks.

61.5 He possesses truth, which links together. No blame.
Karcher sees this as diminishing passionate involvement and putting things right. Even if she calls, it would be best to decrease your involvement.

Take care,

Tony

 

[ben_s]

Steve, I see 61.2 and 61.5 as two ways to describe someone who says the truth in a simple, powerful way that gets a response. Line 5 says the truth brings different things together. I suppose that could mean different people, or different ideas. Line 2's picture is of a mama bird that doesn't have a huge loud voice, and it's kind of hidden too ("in the shade"). But even this out of the way bird is clearly heard by its baby. The baby bird clearly hears that there is safety in food provided by the parent. Then hex 27 is about nutrition, and moderation.

As I see it, this reading says: Someone who speaks the truth doesn't have to shout. Truth that brings people together is easy to hear, and it fills up a person's emptiness.

When you have to struggle to be heard, and you don't feel any better even when you are heard, it's not the right relationship. In the right relationship, you can talk from the heart, and what you say makes sense.

So if that is true of your new relationship, great. If you have something like this to say to the ex, or she has something like this to say to you, it should be said. Otherwise, keep on going until it's easy to talk and easy to listen - just like the bird calls unite the bird family for their dinnertime.

Does this seem relevant?

 

[willowfox]

61.2.5

Both lines strongly suggest that at some stage she will try to contact you.

 

[steve]

Thanks everyone its all very helpful , i took it as she probably will make contact maybe
and if she does it will be to clear the air
I thought the lines suggest she would also as willowfox saw or at least it appears that way
i see the the baby bird as her being lost and maybe it may over whelm her and she will make the call or drop an email and see what happens.
I just dont feel anymore its my place to make the intative anymore even though i really worry about her.
I think she needs help but needs to ask for it

Steve

 

[ben_s]

Steve, have you thought about what you would say if she does try to get in touch? Would you want to plan ahead for that possibility? Or would you just follow your intuition in the moment?

 

[steve]

Yes ii know what i would say
most likely i care but could never go back, but i am there if you really need me on certain levels

Steve