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61.2 and 53.6 about outcome with someone...yes or no?

beadasil

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Dear Wise Ones

Hope you had a lovely Christmas and I wish you a plentiful New Year (even though Mercury and Mars are Retrograde right now!!).

So, I have been asked to cover an event where X will also be going and I am in two minds as to whether I should tell him I'll be there, too or whether I should just turn up and say hi if / when we bump into each other...I am obviously interested in him romantically etc :) so I asked these questions:

What would be the outcome if I told X I will be at the same event next week?
61.2 > 42

What would be the outcome if I didn't tell X I will be at the same event next week and we happen to bump into each other?
53.6 > 39

It seems that whether I tell him I will be there or not, the outcome will be rather positive but but I am puzzled about 39 in the second one - Obstruction (!!)...

What are your opinions?

I would be most grateful for any insights you might have. It's been a long hard road with this, living in different towns, hot and cold behaviour from both parts but we reconnected shortly last week though I was only told about covering the event a few days after we exchanged messages so...

Bea :)
 

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Hi Bea - I would just take a chance and tell him and possibly cover the event with him, but without an I Ching in my handbag.
Maybe you'd get some helpful answers asking I Ching about your general approach to men?
Repeatedly throwing coins before going on dates can get to be very labor intensive ...;)
 
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Hi Bea,
It certainly does read like telling him ahead of time is your best approach. It occurs to me that by not telling him you run the risk that it turns out you don't bump into him and so it's all for noughtl Another possibility is he may be undecided as to whether to even go and knowing you will be there would tip the scales to his going. Finally even if you did accidentally bump into each other at the event there may be other commitments by then that would prevent him spending any time with you. On the other hand if you let him know ahead of time you are going to be there you can set the stage for him actually turning it into a real date:
She>
You're going to the event? Far out, so am I!
He>
You are? Well let's meet up!

Also think it's important when consulting the I Ching that you not try to go for too deep or obscure an interpretation. I think of it as being a tool for communicating with Higher Consciousness and you are both learning how to talk to each other. If you tend to take the face value simple meanings and act on them I think the I Ching will say, "Okay, she speaks, "Plain and Simple." I will give her plain and simple answers." Whereas if you start worrying that 39. Obstructions might actually means it's good to wait, that you are some how Obstructed from telling him before hand etc., then the I Ching starts giving you all sorts of "No means yes and yes means no" type answers.

-Rosada
 
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pink_mandolin

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Go for it!!!

61.2 > 42

Sharing a goblet of wine and an increase!

TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!! :D

:hug:
 

beadasil

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Lloyd! I am still :rofl: at your comment, so true :blush:

Rosada, very helpful, I really appreciate your advice (he will be there cos he is performing ahem). Totally taken on board the approach to the questions, I will make sure I rectify that in the future :duh:

Pink Mandolin, always sooooooo enthusiastic, you're fab :bows:

Thanks again everyone!! :hug:
 

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